<p>The financial aid side of the equation is an important place to start. One possible issue to be aware of right up front is that, assuming your father owns the farm and has equity in it, it will be treated as a family asset by some schools and that may affect the amount of financial aid you will receive. I would, therefore, suggest that as you research schools, you directly ask the financial aid office of every college that interests you how the farm equity and ownership may affect your financial aid package. I'd also recommend that you and your parents get as smart as possible NOW about the process of applying for financial aid and the different factors that may affect your eligibilty. If you PM me or email me, I will be happy to send you a list of resources to help get you started on that end.</p>
<p>Regarding driving: I wouldn't worry about that being a factor! In truth, at most colleges you will not need a car (nor will you want the expense of having one), so don't limit yourself to large cities. In fact, relatively few colleges and universities are actually located in large cities, so focusing just on large cities will somewhat limit your options. At this point, try to cast a wide net. </p>
<p>As a start, What you may want to do, if possible, is try to visit some schools that are within a reasonable driving distance from your house and take a tour (scheduled through the admissions office) to get a sense of the size and type of school that feels right to you. For example, in Nebraska, you might visit the U of Nebraska-Lincoln (or the U of Illinois or U of Wisconsin) for an example of a larger public university, Creighton University (or Northwestern or Washington University) for an example of a smaller private university. Rose Hulman in Indiana or the Illinois Institute of Technology would give you the feel of a specialized engineering school. While none of these schools may end up on your final list, just getting on a college campus and seeing the differences will help you narrow down more national options and give you an idea of how far from home you want to go.</p>
<p>Finally, if you go to the College Board website (<a href="http://www.collegeboard.org)%5B/url%5D">www.collegeboard.org)</a>, and click on the information about subject exams, you can find a list of the subject exams offered, and the dates when they are offered. The general rule of thumb is to choose subject exams that are in your strongest subjects, and take them at the end of the highest level course in the subject. However, some engineering programs (Cal Tech, for example) do have specific math subject exams that they require. You can not take the subject exams on the same day as the SAT. There are actually very few colleges and universities that require subject exams, so, depending on your college list, they may not even be necessary. To research which colleges require or recommend subject exams, and which ones, a useful site is: <a href="http://www.compassprep.com/admissions_req_subjects.aspx%5B/url%5D">http://www.compassprep.com/admissions_req_subjects.aspx</a></p>