<p>I am looking for some advice. My older son, who has been home since 2nd grade, is a rising senior and has recently decided he wants to try the local high school. I am waiting for someone at the school to call me (guidance does not work summers) so I dont even know if it is a possibility. I have heard of others entering in the middle of high school in this district, so I am assuming we could work it out on that end.</p>
<p>His reasons for wanting to go are pretty natural. He wants to feel part of the class of 2010. He feels he is missing the high school experience. He is convinced it would be a wonderful experience and it might very well be. He competes in his sport for this school, is on a year round club team, has a girlfriend, has friends, goes out, went to prom and homecoming, and goes to football games so is not stuck in the house. Ive told him he has had the good parts of high school without the bad. He does not think I am the least bit funny. He has a brother a year behind him and they are very close and share some friends and also each have individual friendships. </p>
<p>I will admit that the past couple of years have not been the most fun at home. First, the material is just harder to make fun once you are in high school. No more M&M math, weekly field trips and all that other fun stuff from the younger years. Also, my brother became ill and died and my parents both had health problems so I know I was not at my best. Some days I wanted to get out of this house too!</p>
<p>While I am not opposed to his going to the school, I have multiple concerns and would appreciate any feedback. My irl friends are sick of hearing from me!</p>
<p>My main concern is academics, of course. He is a bright kid, has very good grades from me and on-line classes and an excellent ACT score. I know he could do whatever work they give him, but I worry about a transition period for subjects like foreign language and math. Can you take Spanish 3 in a different program and do well? I dont think so. The way the school would do his transcript is give him an S for any homeschooled class and the only grades that would count towards his GPA would be classes there and from the on-line classes so one C could really ruin his GPA. </p>
<p>Another concern I have is time. He is an athlete being recruited by colleges so will likely be going on 5 recruiting trips in the fall. Also, his sport is a fall sport, and there will be competitions during the school day. Off the bat, I know he would miss 7 days of school the first semester. Even if the school was open to that, he would have to make up the busy work of those school days. This fall would also be when he would be doing all the college apps, essays and probably will take a couple more SAT2s. He would have to take an extra 1.5 credits of classes like Life Management Skills on top of his core curriculum as the school district requires them. He claims he can do it all and would not mind the extra busy work. He is not always self-motivated (being a typical 17 yo) and I can imagine the struggle to manage his time and get all these things done well. </p>
<p>Also, do you think admissions would be concerned about a change at the very end? Would having public school, homeschool and on-line transcripts send up some kind of red flag that we are maybe not so stable? Just trying to figure out what it would look like to an outsider.</p>
<p>My instinct tells me to keep him home. I dont want him to mess up the opportunity that he has created because he wants to have fun. But I also recognize his feelings are real and he will be leaving home the following year and needs to learn how to make choices and live with them. Do I let him potentially mess things up or throw a stiff arm and make him stick it out at home? </p>
<p>Ill admit a part of me is a little hurt that it might end this way. I had plans to work hard and finish the year early and spend the last couple of months he is home doing some fun things and building memories before he leaves for good. :sigh:</p>
<p>If you have read this far, thanks! Just typing it out has helped me see things more clearly but I would welcome anyone who has btdt (or not) and can offer some sage advice!</p>