This is a little about my D’s life as a BFA graduate. I think I should preface this by saying that my husband and I agreed before my D went to college for her BFA that we would financially and emotionally support her for as long as we could once she graduated since we felt that was only fair given how difficult it is to make it in this field and since we wanted her to have the best chance possible to make it. Her promise to us was that upon graduation she would commit herself 100% to finding work and if she decided that it was no longer her passion she would turn her energy elsewhere. I understand that there are some kids who have been able to work and support themselves right out of school. I am impressed! This has not been the case for my D so we continue to help support her. So far, her passion has not waned.
My D graduated with a BFA in Acting in May. She is living in NYC and working her butt off to make it as a working actress. This means that everyday she has 2 or 3 auditions, which not only require the time it takes to get to the audition and the time at the audition itself but also the prep time of getting familiar with the script for each of these auditions. In order to get these auditions she spends a few hours each day scouring the emails from the boards she belongs to that match her with auditions. She then spends time submitting herself for the auditions. She also does workshops and takes classes so that she doesn’t get stale. This all takes a lot of time. So far she has done a few off broadway plays, a few indy films, a web series pilot, and some voice over work. Nothing that has paid a lot. We quickly realized that this meant that all she could swing in terms of jobs were the typical very flexible hostessing/waitressing/baby sitting jobs so that she never had to say to an auditon or feel ill prepared when she got to an audition because she was working at some other job. Because missing one audition, might mean that she missed the one that was going to be her break. So we help support her. And that is what we signed up for when we agreed that she could pursue this career path.
One other thing I wanted to add for MT kids that my Acting kid noticed is that there seems to be more opportunity for MT kids since musicals have much bigger casts than dramas, a lot of regional and summer stock theater produce mostly musicals, and a lot of national tours are musicals. This is not a fact, just an observation. But if it’s true, that’s good news for MT!