Am I too young?

<p>So, I'm 12 right now, and my 13th birthday is in late October. I'm a rising 8th grader considering Deerfield, Exeter, Andover, and St. Paul's (but mostly Deerfield) as my top options. I've been told I might have a smaller chance because I am younger. Is that true? Should I apply for 10th as a 9th grader instead? Or a repeat 9th grader? I'd rather not repeat a grade though, so if I wouldn't have to to get in, I'd rather not. So, is my age a disadvantage at the schools I want to apply to? Should I even bother?</p>

<p>My DS has a very late August birthday and had just turned 14 when he started at DA. There are a couple kids in his class with later birthdays. There is a big age spread at BS ( in part because there are many repeats and because kids from some countries start school later), but it’s never been a problem. I’m sure the admissions people assess your level of maturity, just to make sure you’ll be comfortable away from home-- but I don’t think they’d reject you because you’re young. My son’s friend group includes several sophomores–again, I don’t think age matters that much in either direction (but you WILL be on the younger side).</p>

<p>In addition to the wide spread of older kids, at the top schools there is a larger than normal spread of younger kids due to gifted programs and skipping grades. You’ll be fine, as long as you’re mature enough for the grade. </p>

<p>Older daughter turned 14 in the second semester of her frosh year at BS.</p>

<p>If you are concerned about whether to apply now or as a repeat 9th grader, just ask the AOs you meet with.</p>