Any one else annoyed with kids being spammed by Ivys?

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I was actually kind of hurt because my kid goes to Brown and I suspect the granddaughter got something from them and just ignored it😀. As his sibling often reminds him, to most people Brown is nothing more then the color of poo.

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Agreed, but I think inflation is an aspect of rigor


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In my view, that is why we have things like CC, to partly “educate” folks about how the game is played
 On the other hand, that and $1 will get you a bus ticket


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The reasons so many students at our school have 4.0 or greater:

  1. Our scale goes up to 4.5 for a regular A+.
  2. Honors and AP are weighted an extra 1.0, so if you get an A+, that’s 5.5. Even if you get a B, it counts as a 4.0 in your GPA.

Most parents don’t seem to know this, and they don’t understand that colleges will take that 4.7 and put it in perspective, by looking at rigor and weighting. To their credit, the guidance counselors try to get people to be realistic, but sometimes that’s no match for the “personalized” mailings, the awards their kid is getting, and the sound of a 4.7 GPA.

One friend of D’s who is the child of immigrants applied ED to an ivy where she had done summer research. Her parents had everything prepared for a surprise celebration when the results were sent out. She didn’t get in, was devastated, and later found the balloons and merch upstairs. I know it’s not a tragedy, but it sure felt awful to her :pensive: . She didn’t come to school the next day. (She is okay now–great kid, and very loving parents who just didn’t know about vanishing acceptance rates.) The heartbreak seems so unnecessary.

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My kids never checked any boxes (that I know of) and they still got a ton of stuff in the mail. It was fun to look at some of the brochures even if they were schools my kids had no interest in attending.

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Besides bringing awareness to those who might not know about a school, these emails also help the colleges track if students are interested. One of my children received a scholarship from a school that they weren’t all that interested in. When touring the school and talking to an AO, they told me the number of emails that my student opened through the years and that my student actually filled out one of the “send me more info” prompts. I was shocked.