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I'm glad my candy platter idea will work. P3t, if I purchase a new platter (not too expensive), would that be ok? I would rather send a glass/pottery platter than paper or plastic.
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<p>Absolutely! the point is only that it's not been used previously.</p>
<p>If you think the family is very traditional, just hint in the note: Here's some KP candy on a new dish.. " so they won't have to ask anything of your D. If you want them to keep the dish afterward, tell your D to refuse it when they try to have her take it home. If you want the platter back, she can say "Yes" and run with the new plate back home to tell you about her good time there :) </p>
<p>Really, my relatives drive me nuts with all of this, and likely the D's friend won't even ask or wonder. But if they do, you're covered.</p>
<p>My, I wish you were in my circle of friends! So thoughtful.</p>