<p>Since you know Lewis Dot, that's great. Basically, draw the molecule out with all the electrons included. The hybridization can be thought of as "the number of occupied sides" an atom in the molecule has. "Occupied" as in, is there a bond or unbonded electron pair. If 1 side is occupied, the hybridization is "s". 2 sides is "sp" and 3 sides is sp2 and 4 sides is sp3.</p>
<p>*for the sake of my convenience sp3 = sp^3 :D</p>
<p>When you draw the typical lewis dot, you have a S orbital and 3 p orbitals.</p>
<p>A carbon atom has a hybridization of sp3.</p>
<p>A hydrogen atom (in CH4) has a hybridization of s.</p>
<p>Examples:</p>
<p>NaCl ~ Hybridization:(Na = sp) (Cl = sp3)
BaI2 ~ (Ba = sp) (each I = sp3)
AlF3 ~ (Al = sp2) (F = sp3)
SiF4 ~ (Si = sp3) (F = sp3)</p>
<p>Now comes the tricky part.</p>
<p>The atoms with 1 or more unbonded electron pairs, can split one or more electron pairs to form more bonds. This creates atoms with a hybridization in the dsp3 and d^2sp^3. dsp3 is when one pair is split. d2sp3 is when 2 are split.</p>
<p>For example:</p>
<p>PF5 ~ (P = dsp3) (F=sp3)
SF4 ~ (S = dsp3) (F=sp3)
ClF3 ~ (Cl = dsp3) (F=sp3)</p>
<p>SF6 ~ (S = d2sp3) (F=sp3)
ClF5 ~ (Cl = d2sp3) (F=sp3)
XeF4 ~ (Xe = d2sp3) (F=sp3)</p>
<p>Since you said you get VSEPR, I trust that you know how to draw the structural shapes of the atoms and know the shapes/bond angles.</p>
<p>Hybridization is really just "counting" how many "sides" of each element is taken up with an unbonded electron pair or by a bond.</p>
<p>Typically, only the center atom will have a hybridization of dsp3 or d2sp3.</p>
<p>I don't remember which edition of Zumdahl's Chemistry my class used last year, but it was the same book. Look at the diagrams and it helps to make a huge chart in your notebook of every possible combination of element (include shape, bond angles, attraction forces, molecule type, hybridization and eventually resonance form (if available) and formal charge.)</p>