You state that you are from NJ, as am I.
In state NJ public colleges, such as Rowan, Rutgers, Ramapo and Stockton cost around $32,000 a year.
Wake Forest is $73,000 a year.
Please do the math, with your family alongside, to first figure out how much savings you have.
Complete the FAFSA now, to get an idea if they are going to qualify for any need based aid.
Most people think they have “need” but really their incomes are too high, and the colleges do not care if you have a big car payment or credit card debt, you do not have “need” in their estimation.
Consider how many credits you can transfer from your IB program. My daughter used 28 AP credits, add a summer of classes, and she will graduate in only three years. Big savings.
Scholarships are incredibly competitive and require organization and effort. The myth that there is some mystery scholarship with full tuition, room and board that no one applied for so it magically dropped into someone’s lap is a MYTH. I’m suggesting you do the work do identify colleges that have merit aid, and do scholarship applications, but recognize the first (merit) is more important and likely than the second.
Finally, do not hold that a Top 20 college is essential. If you have middling PSAT/SAT scores, it isn’t going to happen.
Consider the debt first. You make your own experience - get into the Honors program at college, jump into learning with both feet, and you will thrive. It is YOU who make your college experience, not the name on the sweatshirt.
Feel free to message me. Always happy to assist a Jersey peep.
Look at Ramapo and Stockton - great merit aid being offered there right now.
Last - click on my name and read past threads/comments I’ve made - do the research to support your end goal - which should be a great education at a low debt.