<p>Thank you for asking for clarification, POIH, so I'll provide my own perspective from my own knowledge-base. (Disclaimer: my children, while "athletic" in a general sense, did not pursue high school sports, preferring to channel their physical energy into other physical e.c.'s) I do not have direct experience with the recruiting <em>process</em> (high school to college).</p>
<p>However, it is true (as I think one other poster on this thread said), that almost always, in order to get to a point of being recruited for <em>college</em>, that the student would need to have developed that body & those skills far in advance of that. For some, that could mean as early as age 5, yes. From what I've seen, there is as much variety in that decision-making as there is for any other e.c.: meaning, some parents "push," others do not. An active child may be very capable & desirous of starting an athetlic "career" early. True, how's a child to resist pressure at such a young age? But the same could be said for musical instruments chosen by the parent, not the child, or ballet "decided" for by the parent.</p>
<p>The truth is, most 17- & 18-year olds who are quite accomplished in one or more e.c.'s, have started that process long before high school. In the case of one of my daughters, she began at age 3, completely out of her own desire. (Not sports!) OTOH, I have heard of students who have liimited crew, golf, or another sport to the h.s. 4 years, yet have been recruited. It's just a little more unusual.</p>
<p>Regarding sports on the college level, my understanding is that many colleges still have intramurals for the non-recruited. Someone more knowledgeable about sports at Ivies can weigh in on whether that's true there.</p>
<p>I don't quite understand your point #7. (High school not allowed to recruit.) I thought that most high schools don't recruit their freshman anyway, including for sports. (Is that what you meant? Perhaps I misunderstood.) The process at private high schools I'm familiar with (many) is that every student wanting Varsity level must audition for it. If you do not make that, you would be playing Jr. Varsity (depending on requirements for that) or intramurals, when there's a third tier. (Some high schools are too small for a 3rd tier; there would not be enough players, guaranteeing that anyone not playing Varsity will be playing JV.)</p>
<p>I honestly don't think that at most U.S. Universities, sports are valued <em>more</em> than Academics. The business of the U is academics. The e.c.'s, including sports, serve a variety of supporting functions to those academics. (Even students who never participated in a sport in high school often state that they want to go to a school where sports are prominent, the teams are quite good, it's a D1 school. Some of them relate sports to school spirit & a school "identity.") This isn't important to my own children, but I can definitely understand why it's important to many.</p>