Avoiding/Correcting the "Rich Kid" Stereotype

<p>Hi guys,
I just found this forum and I have a question about some of the activities I did this summer. I don't want to seem like a rich kid or the kid with the silver spoon, because frankly, I'm far from that, and I have had to work a lot for my stuff.</p>

<p>I'll start from the beginning (it's a long story, so please bear with me). It's totally cool if you don't feel like reading the whole thing :).</p>

<p>Last winter I did some research on my two main fields of interest, biology and physics. I narrowed down my interests and figured out some specific topics that I wanted to research. I looked for labs with research on my topics, to my dismay none were willing to accept high schoolers (or maybe it was just me :)).</p>

<p>Later, I found a summer program that offered kids the opportunity to do research abroad, in a country that I was fascinated with, Germany. I had wanted to learn the language, and to learn more about the culture for a long time. In addition to this, I found a lab at the host location that specialized in my area of interest. I was ecstatic - to say the least!</p>

<p>Anyways, here comes the kicker:</p>

<p>the program price was extremely high (think Harvard SSP high).</p>

<p>I come from a middle class family, and my parents place a lot of value on education, so they were willing to pick up the tab. However, I could not and did not let them do that. </p>

<p>So, I worked like a mad man for the month or so before the trip and managed to scrounge up the money for the trip. My parents didn't have to pay anything, not even the plane tickets. While I was there, I conducted a great deal of research (sometimes 10 hours a day, and sometimes on weekends too), and I will be submitting my paper to Siemens Westinghouse and Intel STS.</p>

<p>However, I'm concerned about how the admissions officers will view my trip. I'm afraid they view it as a big vacation for some rich kid with nothing better to do during the summer, when in reality, that's probably about as far from the truth as you can get (in my opinion). It doesn't help my case either that most of the research was conducted in English (I picked up most of my German outside of work).</p>

<p>I read in a different forum about how admissions officers view international volunteering - they wonder, why this kid had to go help some aborigines 10,000 miles away when he could have helped in his neighborhood. In my case, the modified version of that argument is valid as well (Why Russia when you can do the same thing in the USA?)... It's true that my research probably could have been done somewhere in the USA, but I also wanted to pick up some of the German language and culture. I wanted the whole experience. Taking German classes in the USA just isn't the same as being completely immersed in the culture. Maybe, it was stubborn, thickskulled, and even spoiled of me to do so, but I made the choice, and I made the money with my own sweat, time, and labor. </p>

<p>I can't justify the spending in words or in writing that well, but it was an incredible, life-changing experience.</p>

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<p>Anyways, the focus is, how should I get this message across to the adcoms? Should I say something about it in the interview? How else should I do it (in case my interviewer doesn't relay it on)?</p>

<p>Thank you very much for your time.</p>

<p>"However, I'm concerned about how the admissions officers will view my trip. I'm afraid they view it as a big vacation for some rich kid with nothing better to do during the summer, when in reality, that's probably about as far from the truth as you can get (in my opinion). It doesn't help my case either that most of the research was conducted in English "</p>

<p>Yes, absolutely most "rich kids" like nothing better than doing research for summer vacation...:) I don't think you'll have a problem explaining yourself and your situation to an admissions counsulor, give them some credit to sort it out.</p>

<p>You made thousands of dollars in a month? I would've kept the job...</p>

<p>I have my own business, and I put in some extra time. It's a long story for another day :).</p>

<p>Edit: OpiefromMayberry, I meant it might come off as paying money to pad your resume/app.</p>

<p>I want to know how you made thousands in a month. Do tell. Sounds like a compelling essay.</p>

<p>I don't really see a problem. It seems more like an extra kick to your application. You made thousands in a month with your business. Like Northstarmom said, it would make an interesting essay.</p>

<p>Well, the way I've explained things, and spread out all of the details in the open, does make it seem like a no brainer. However, I won't be able to do this with my app, the admissions people will draw their own conclusions from what they see on the app. They won't know the time I put into research my topic, writing my paper, working, etc. Although that makes me think that I should do an essay on the topic (?)</p>

<p>Regarding how I made the money. I already had a steady source of income from my business - about $2000/month. I built up a lawn mowing business with 2 other guys and sold my portion of it for $1500, and I kept the earnings of $500 from the first bit of lawn mowing (could have doubled by the time of the trip if I really needed). I had some savings as well, and that basically covered me. I didn't really <em>need</em> to sell my portion of the lawn mowing business since I had a lot of savings from my business, but I just wanted to stay on the safe side of things. Plus, I developed a pretty intense hatred for lawn mowing during those days.</p>

<p>And I don't know what was going through my mind, but instead of:
Why Russia when you can do the same thing in the USA?</p>

<p>I meant Australia (aborigines).</p>

<p>There's no way around making paid for summer programs sound different from what they are. You're in good company though, more and more middle class kids are doing them. Focus on doing well in the competitions and make the most of it.</p>

<p>I get the feeling that you're pretty close to the mark bobby. There probably isn't that much I can do. But I figured I might've been able to turn it into a positive by playing up the fact that I paid by myself and all of the research I did :).</p>

<p>Honestly, I don't know if it's worth it to include it (it sounds ridiculous, but hear me out). A) It sounds like I didn't have the skills to get an internship or lab assistant job elsewhere. B) It was an exorbitant price, doesn't matter that much who paid. It was still a lot. C) It doesn't fit with the general flow of my app. I haven't done research before this. This was my first lab experience. D) I'm really, really afraid that adcoms will just view this as packing the app with money :(.</p>

<p>vaserv,
you will be including information about work experience on your application, and can discuss your business there.</p>

<p>In my son's HS, the students fill out a form to assist the GC in completing your rec. Include your information in that - your ability to hustle the bucks for this program is unusual and worth being included in the rec.</p>

<p>No one is entirely satisfied with their application. I believe that you will have an interesting one - and all the better for your ability to set and accomplish a goal on your own.</p>

<p>This is definitely a great essay topic. I don't see what better essay you can come up with than this post - you had a mission, you worked for it with the least outside help possible (even though your parents were willing to provide it) and succeeded. This would make a great essay and would explain to the colleges that there is no silver spoon involved.</p>

<p>Yeah, I think I might go the essay route. Anyone know out of HYPSM, which one values essays/ECs the most?</p>

<p><strong><em>bummmp</em></strong></p>

<p>"Yeah, I think I might go the essay route. Anyone know out of HYPSM, which one values essays/ECs the most"</p>

<p>They probably all value the essays/ECs the same because the colleges you mentioned have an overabundance of high stat applicants, so the essays and ECs are what are the deal makers for the students (along with the things that students have no control over such as the colleges' wanting to have a diversity of regions, countries, ethnic groups, etc. represented).</p>

<p>I was just thinking... Is there anyway I can corroborate this stuff? I've thought about sending bank statements and checks/etc, but alot of that stuff is easy to edit and I'm sure adcoms know that too...</p>

<p>I think that the fact that you paid for the trip, not your parents will show that you don't have the rich kid syndrome. For corroboration, you might be able to use 1040's, accounting from your former business, etc.</p>

<p>Stanford probably places the most emphasis on the essays out of HYPSM. On the common application, you can use the space asking you to describe one of your extracurricular activities to explain the situation as you did at the beginning of this thread. This way you will have plenty of space to let the adcoms know the situation without having to write your essay on it.</p>