I really want to go to Simon’s Rock, but at the same time I’m afraid that I’ll regret it. All of my friends are completely against the idea of me going to college at 16, but I think its a really good opportunity to actually get something out of my education. As it is, the only things that are keeping me from going are my friends, family and the possiblity that i might regret it. What should i do?
Try to visit and shadow a student for a day. Ask yourself if you could see yourself there. If so, it’s probably a good option.
Being away from family and friends can be hard, but you’ll come home at holidays and for the summer. And you’ll make new friends. So in the end, your world grows.
If you don’t like it when you visit, you will still have an answer, just a different one.
I was in a similar position when I was applying to Simon’s Rock, as most of my peers were opposed and I was concerned I would regret the decision. Looking back on it (I entered SR in 2012), it was absolutely the right decision for me. Of course, there’s a chance you’ll regret it. That’s true for any major life chance. But unless you have a specific concern about the school, I would recommend not letting that get in the way going to SR.
I definitely think you should visit the school if you haven’t, already.
Ask yourself this: What do you think you’ll get out of it that you will miss out on if you stay in high school and go to college the “regular” way? Conversely, what will you miss out on at home if you leave early?
I attended Simon’s Rock in the 80s. I was an advanced student – didn’t find high school sufficiently challenging – and my home situation was… less than ideal. I had a great experience there and have never regretted it. But it is definitely not the typical college experience. The student body is very diverse and quirky. That’s a plus for some people and a minus for others. You just have to weigh your goals and see the school and decide if it’s right for you. Good luck!