If you are still conflicted, OP, and COA is about equal… this may seem silly, but have you thought about going to games at the schools? If so, do you see yourself more easily as a Bobcat in garnet or as a Continental in blue & buff?
It’s part of the social vibe at a school – did either school seem more rah-rah and what are your thoughts? If equal, are you a Bobcat or a Continental?
Here are some photos from their most recent football meeting:
Hamilton impressed me when I didn’t want to be impressed. I started my visit eager to go home so I could commit to Bates, and I left doubting what I thought I was sure about. It was far more diverse than I was expecting and this was striking to me because Bates seemed somewhat homogeneous. Hamilton felt vibrant, whereas Bates felt somewhat temperate and very safe. Nothing against Bates, of course. Bates is and always will be a lovely school, and it was bittersweet to send in my declination.
Thank you to everyone who has contributed to this thread and for the kindness and encouragement you’ve offered along the way. I appreciate it.
Toward the end of your journey to this point, you ultimately weren’t afraid of having two great choices. That, perhaps, was your personal victory here.
Good luck at Hamilton, @hopeful1660 (H '21), you will be an asset to your new community!
@hopeful1660, congrats. Our DD1 went through the same struggle, but Hamilton won her over as soon as she stepped back on campus on Accepted Students Day; then seeing all her future teammates again sealed it for her.
Both are great choices and you were so lucky to have it.
“Hamilton impressed me when I didn’t want to be impressed.”
I believe your genuine effort to consider all salient aspects and find the right fit will be rewarded with four transformative years in Clinton. I wish you well on College Hill!