<p>Yes. I think they are. If I thought my morals sucked, I wouldn't have them.</p>
<p>I love to have sex. Reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, isn't it? I guess my logic sucks, but using "retarded" and setting up a straw man to knock down is impeccable logic. I'm also betting you've never formally studied logic -ever-.</p>
<p>Okay, let's see first you mention girls who are sluts are disguisting. Then you go on to say because of sluts AIDs is an epidemic. Your comparisions are inept. You think your morals are so incredibly right that you can sit and pass judgement on everything. And you shouldnt talk about reading comprehension when I never called you retarded.</p>
<p>Do you mean that your morals are so lacking that you feel uncomfortable passing judgment on anything? </p>
<p>Girls OR guys who are sluts are disgusting. Loose sexual morals are a large contributor to the spread of AIDS and other STDs in America. This is a fact. Obviously, the guys who pick up a different girl at each nightclub have nothing to do with AIDS in Africa. Here, AIDS has two causes: sex and drugs. Whether it's the sluts letting guys **** them and use them like it's nothing in nightclubs or the gay male scene where amyl nitrate and Viagra parties are becoming the norm - these are the things spreading STDs.</p>
<p>So do you have a problem with girls who use protection and are sexually active with multiple partners?</p>
<p>I applaud them for their decision to use protection. I do not agree with their choice as I believe that sexual intercourse belongs in a relationship based on love and not purely lust. However, they are much preferable to those who willingly choose to help STDs spread.</p>
<p>I am not uncomfortable with passing judgement. If someone wants to have sex with alot of people then let them as long as it is not hurting anyone. I am not going to pass judgement on their morality or call them disguisting. I am not uptight. This isnt a puritan society where everyone must be holy and save themselves. There is nothing wrong with sex.</p>
<p>The spread of STDs is also because of the lack of knowledge about protection. Just because someone has STDs doesnt mean they cant have sex. However, they should use contraception so they wont spread it.</p>
<p>It's not hurting anyone, so it shouldn't be illegal. There are lots of things I find immoral that don't hurt anyone. I love sex and think there's nothing wrong with it in committed relationships. You think I'm a Puritan!? /laugh</p>
<p>No, I dont think you are a puritan. Now I know you are a bit more smarter than to take that literally. I also think it is a good thing that you rather have sex in a commited relationship. I just dont think you should assume everyone should do the same. But to each his own.</p>
<p>I don't follow moral relativism - if your morals should apply to only you, anything becomes acceptable. I don't think prostitution or drug use should be illegal either, but I look down on prostitutes/johns and users of certain drugs.</p>
<p>^ I agree. The post about 'not passing judgement' is crap. As human beings, we must judge between whats right and whats wrong, whats moral and whats immoral, whats honest and whats dishonest, and whats food and whats poison. Saying that you cannot judge another's actions means you do not have a strong foundation in ethics. </p>
<p>Its perfectly ok to pass judgement on a slut. I have done it before, and I don't lose any sleep over it. Its not 'cool' to sleep with a different partner every night. </p>
<p>Of course, this kind of behavior should not be made illegal. But its definitely all right to frown upon it. But neverborn is right about the spread of STDs due to promiscuity.</p>
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<p>Define "slut" first. According to a certain moral code, anyone who divorces a spouse is a slut. I'd say that someone who has enough partners that they can't remember them all intimately would be promiscuous.</p>
<p>But what exactly, in a well-defined manner, is a "slut?"</p>
<p>i hate the sexistism arising with the term 'slut'.</p>
<p>a guy who sleeps with many girls is usually called 'the man' or 'pimp', none of which have a really offensive meaning these days.</p>
<p>but when a girl sleeps with many guys, she is called offensive names and marked a 'slut'.</p>
<p>Well thats true but here in detroit when a girl is considered a slut is b/c she sales her body and buys crack at the end of the day. But thats here ;)</p>
<p>I agree with Blondchick. :)</p>
<p>wait, is there such thing as a man slut? there ARE male prostitutes.</p>
<p>Here in detroit on Woodward AVE. we have a ton of male prostitutes most of them are trans sexuals though. :eek: ewwww</p>
<p>so they ARE man sluts?</p>
<p>i don't know why, but i tend to conclude that prostitutes aren't really sluts. i think of sluts more as those who love the act of having sex rather than any other that they would do whatever it takes to have sex. but prostitutes are doing it for money, not because they love to have sex.</p>
<p>I do not frown on divorce, as marriage is nothing special to me. It's a nice formal way of making your commitment on the "next level" so to speak. </p>
<p>A woman or a man who has multiple sex partners that can be described as hook ups or one night stands or booty calls - to me, that is a slut. It's disgusting behavior whether a man or a woman does it.</p>
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<p>couldn't have said it better.</p>
<p>Prostitutes aren't sluts, they're whores...that's why they are "whoring" themselves. </p>
<p>I believe a slut is someone that is easy, not someone that has had many sex partners. Sometimes these things coincide, but they are very different.</p>
<p>Maybe I am more simpathetic when it comes to using the term slut because my best friend always hears it. She is 17 and has had sex with 11 different guys. I don't judge her, but I also don't follow the same morals as she does. On the other hand, my best guy friend is also 17 and has also had sex with 11 different girls. All of my other guy friends look up to him, and he is considered "supa cool".</p>