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<p>I think the adventure she's talking about is more like flirting, etc.</p>
<p>Many girls would have probably picked an in-betweener, but that wasn't an option. -__- </p>
<p>IMO, an extreme player and an extreme nerd won't be decent dating partners either way. One will leave you for another woman (<em>cringes</em>) and the other will leave you for the enhancement of his knowledge (a.k.a he'll ignore you).</p>
<p>Because I defined this situation as: There are no other guys around. It's just you, a player, and a nerd which one would you choose? I chose a player. Why? Because under other circumstances, I wouldn't have dated one at all.</p>
<p>neverborn: It is a hypothetical situation. Just because we chose players doesn't demean us in any way. (-_-) However, as bobbobbob said, there are many in-betweeners out there. We just have to look and, hopefully, find one that's right for us.</p>
<p>bookfreak: I completely disagree. People who would choose a piece of **** over an awkward/antisocial/inept/whatever guy don't impress me. I guess some stereotypes are right, huh...</p>
<p>No, they are not. </p>
<p>No one is trying to impress you, but rather, ATTEMPTING to make you understand their rationale.</p>
<p>Oh well, you can't please them all.</p>
<p>Stereotypes say that a lot of girls choose *******s over nice guys. Your "rationale" aside, you are an example of the stereotype. /shrug</p>
<p>Some nerds are definitly hott but we are going for the stereotypes ones now. I would rather choose a player because I dont want to be with someone who is socially awkward, uncomfortable, or whatever. I rather have someone who is a bit socially inclined. I still want to have fun when we hangout and in conversations. For some reason I think a playa would be able to make me laugh more. And i just dont want to waste my time making a nerd comfortable or more socially comfortable. And if the playa wants to mess with me I will mess with him back. I can play mind games too.</p>
<p>neverborn: No, I'm not. Just because you refuse to understand my rationale, doesn't categorize me as a stereotype. Besides, not all nerds are nice people as you define them.</p>
<p>neverborn, i am going to take a wild guess and say that you are a nerd to the highest degree.</p>
<p>Nah. I'm in between. I am more nerd than player, but not completely socially inept. I have a girlfriend and go to parties, but don't have sex with random sluts who get picked up by players at nightclubs.</p>
<p>hmm well that wasn't an option.
and does that mean that people who prefer players are sluts?</p>
<p>I'd generalize that given the inherent definition of a player.</p>
<p>Wow, so I guess someone who doesnt want to be serious and experiment is officially a slut. Great.</p>
<p>/shrug. Have your lifestyle. I happen to think it's ****ing disgusting.</p>
<p>You must think you are something to pass judgement so fast.</p>
<p>Someone with morals. Yes, I do.</p>
<p>Well you may say that you aren't a nerd, but so far, you have only exhibited socially retarded behavior. </p>
<p>But to each his own. I guess I am a slut.</p>
<p>There's a difference between being socially inept and despising the fact that modern society encourages both guys and girls to be sluts. I wonder why AIDS is a global pandemic. I honestly have no idea. I guess wanting to stay away from those with loose morals who may carry diseases is pretty retarded.</p>
<p>So your morals must be the end-all be-all.</p>
<p>Lol. So just because someone likes to have sex they are a horrible human being who is encouraging AIDs? The logic in this case is fantastic.</p>