DS recently had a neuropsych done. He scored 120-139 for verbal comprehension, visual/spatial & fluid reasoning, but avg for processing speed (98 or 45th percentile). FSIQ 129. He attends an accelerated MS where he gets some accommodations (time extensions) but most assignments he turns in on time. He is very advanced in math but tends to struggle with certain texts or open ended class discussions where some of what’s being said just goes over his head. He needs then to look at handouts or reading material to put it all together. The teachers and student body are very supportive and he is generally doing very well, although I can see that the slow processing sometimes takes a toll-- certain assignments can be overwhelming.
We are looking at BS options for HS. I want to keep him intellectually motivated and engaged but don’t want to drown him. He hates busy busy work and excels with a differentiated approach. Assuming these schools would accept a kid with his academic profile, are we nuts looking at schools like Choate, Loomis and Middlesex, even CATE? Or should we focus on less competitive schools that have a broader range of learners?? I see on several other threads on this site that competitive schools do offer accommodations but I wonder whether we’d just be putting him in a situation where he would be perpetually “catching up” because of the heavy workload. DS is committed, works hard and wants to do well, but sometimes he gets caught up in the rat race of friends applying to Exeter and Andover and wonders why not me. I want him to find a school where he’d be challenged and supported. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.