Cal Poly SLO vs UC Davis

Hi all, right now I am trying to decide between cal poly slo and Davis. I’m majoring in english, and I’m not too sure which college is better for the creative writing part of that major. I am also gay, which is a pretty important part of my decision as I want to go to a college where I can have some options in terms of dating and also be generally accepted.
Thanks!

I saw on another thread that gays are accepted at SLO but the gay dating pool is small.