Calling colleges about my disability - my experience

<p>CC'ers with disabilities, take heed: always call before you apply, and ask plenty of questions. You'll learn a great deal. </p>

<p>Yesterday, at the behest of my guidance counselor, I called eleven of the thirteen colleges I applied to last fall to talk about disability services, residence life, and campus "autism-fiendliness." I know that this was a dangerous move admissions-wise, but it was necessary, as my guidance couselor said that she was ethically-bound to make those calls if I refused to do so. </p>

<p>My admissions officer with The College of Wooster was thrilled with the chance to talk about the virtues of her employer, and she told me that she had her "fingers crossed" for my acceptance. Notable quotable: "The people with the disabilities office are some of the nicest people that I have ever known." </p>

<p>The man who spoke to me about Grinnell was just as friendly. He told me that GC has a partnership with a local hospital that provides student mental health services for free. Grinnell's only autism-unfriendly aspect is the coed bathrooms in some of the dorms. It's a pity that I probably won't get into Grinnell. </p>

<p>The best response of all came from Beloit College, an autism-friendly institution if there ever was one. I spoke to both my admissions officer and the head of the office of disability services. My admissions officer remembered me from my e-mail (which I sent way back in October!) and answered my questions with tact, sensitivity, and enthusiasm. The head of disability services told me about all the great accommodations that were available, but she warned me about the amount of group work that I should expect as a psychology major. </p>

<p>The people at Clark University were horrible. The first time I called, the admissions office routed my call to the dean's office, which routed my call back to the admissions office, which routed my call to the student counseling center, whose receptionist hung up on me. The second time I called, I demanded to speak to an admissions officer. The admissions officer basically told me that Clark University has none of the services I need. I can’t believe I paid the $40 application fee. </p>

<p>My call to Hendrix College took a mundane course. Hendrix offers some services but not others. </p>

<p>The woman who I spoke to at Ursinus College (J.D. Salinger’s alma mater) was a d.amned Yankee who spoke so quickly that I could barely understand her. I did gather that Ursinus College has all the academic services I need, but no single dorms. </p>

<p>The people at Earlham were very considerate, and they conversed with me like I mattered to them. They were knowledgeable about autism and Asperger's syndrome, and they gave me specific examples of Asperger's students who thrived at Earlham. Earlham has some of the accommodations that I asked about (including some awesome note-taking machines called “Smart Pens”), but not others. They were the only admissions people who told me that my college life would be complicated by my inability to drive. </p>

<p>When I called Smith, Lawrence U, Guilford, and Kalamazoo, no one was available to speak to me (not out of rudeness - staff members were in meetings or on their lunch breaks when I called.)</p>

<p>Obviously, I got some responses that delighted me and others that filled me with dismay. No matter how wonderful the Beloit/Wooster/Grinnell/Earlham/Ursinus people were, I am still furious at myself for letting certain schools fall through the cracks of my perception. Lesson learned: always voice your concerns before you apply, and never just assume that small LACs are great places for students with disabilities.</p>

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<p>Note: this is a partial repost from a thread I started on WrongPlanet.com</p>

<p>What exactly are the services you need (if you don’t mind saying?) I am applying for schools with a learning disability, a lot of the same ones as yours, and I want to see if the accomodations we need are similar to compare. Thanks for the good advice and well informed post!</p>

<p>Sounds like your GC was spot on and I’m glad your calling about this. Good luck.</p>

<p>Medical Needs:

  • Is there a pharmacy within walking distance of campus?
  • Does your college have a clinic or health services department where I can get treatment for frequent ear infections?
  • Will I be able to get nutritious, low-sugar food in the cafeteria, even if I’m on financial aid? </p>

<p>Academic Services:

  • If I present the proper documentation, can I get a note-taker or a tape recorder for lectures?
  • If I present the proper documentation, can I get extra time on exams?
  • Does your college offer tutoring services in math and foreign language? </p>

<p>Counseling Services:

  • Is there a student counseling center?
  • If so, are the services that it offers geared more towards crisis care or long-term therapy by appointment?
  • If I need/want long-term therapy by appointment, will I have to find a professional outside the college? </p>

<p>Housing, Student Life, and Self-Care:

  • Can I make it four years at your college without a car?<br>
  • Would you consider the campus quiet?
  • Can I get a single dorm room?
  • If not, is there a compatability-based roommate selection process?
  • Do the dorms have coed bathrooms?
  • Do the dorms have caretakers or “dorm parents”?</p>

<p>Thanks, MissPickwickian! =)</p>

<p>MissP - I am so impressed by your preparation and self-awareness. You and your “support team” have probably worked very hard to put you in a position to succeed in college. I’m sure you will do well at your final choice.</p>

<p>MissP - What a great set of questions! Thanks for posting this information!</p>

<p>Wow, thaks for all the well-wishes! </p>

<p>mom2sons - I owe my support team the world. Their goal is not to coddle me or fix me, but to teach me the self-advocacy skills that I will need in college and life. Calling my colleges and asking questions was an act of learned self-advocacy. Having the ability to ask for help is one of the keys to a successful college career, and I’m proud to say that I have it. </p>

<p>UPDATE: I was able to get ahold of Lawrence University and Agnes Scott College. I met with kindness and enthusiasm during both calls. If I go to either institution, I will be able to get everything I need/want except that elusive freshman single dorm.</p>

<p>Also, Hendrix College called me back twice to see if I had any more questions. How sweet of them!</p>

<p>Am I allowed to bump this kind of thread? :/</p>

<p>you say you have autism?</p>

<p>I hope you don’t mind my asking what it is like living with that?</p>

<p>MissP – Thanks for this post! My autistic son is a HS freshman, so your good advice will be very useful for him. Did you visit the colleges that you are applying to? I’m wondering whether seeing the campus in person would be more important to gauge the “comfort” level.</p>

<p>MissP</p>

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<p>I think that you have done an excellent job in your questions and in advocating for yourself. However, I have a question about your statement above. It is my understanding that guidance counselors are not allowed legally to discuss/reveal any student disabilities with colleges (I don’t know if there are exceptions to this rule however). If your guidance counselor made such a statement and intended to follow through, I think that you might want to discuss it with him/her further so that other students in the future are given a choice about the matter of revealing a disability.</p>

<p>^^^ absolutely right. They can not share private information with any other professional (psychiatrist, student services, etc.) without your written signature (if over 18) or your parent’s signature. That said, many GCs who knows the student well can and will strongly advocate for them. This sounded as if this GC knew you were more than capable to make those phone calls on your own, and therefore said this just to get you going.</p>