<p>no good friends
no girlfriend
virgin
above average grades
sitting in front of a computer of laptop all day.</p>
<p>Yes I agree, but to tell you the harsh truth, my passion is doing stuffs on the internet - like web designing etc. Almost all of them require me to be on a computer and thats the problem there,I know…</p>
<p>I’m already in a good college, but I cannot fit in…I’m already older than most people that might post in this part of the forum, heres what my life has all come to:</p>
<p><a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/1593205-what-my-life-has-all-come.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/1593205-what-my-life-has-all-come.html</a></p>
<p>I’m more concerned about getting into a relationship and making friends than anything else…at this moment.</p>
<p>But you know…those majors where the GUYS are in abundance? Hardly any girls?</p>
<p>I belong there, and it NO WAY relates to my fantasy of college life I saw few years ago - hence the frustration I face ,hardly any girls and I always feel like a thirsty and INCOMPLETE guy just because I do not have a GF , you might argue but I grew up with parents that cared least about me, hardly loved me…all this has had deep deep psychological effect on my mind and I need someone…someone…someone to love me and with whom I can share everything - and since i haven’t been in a relationship before it seems pretty natural that I want that ‘someone’ to be some girl, like most guys I presume.</p>
<p>Damn :/</p>
<p>wait if you’re in college and/or 20 maybe you shouldn’t be asking for advice from high school students…</p>
<p>IF this is related to issues of ‘being loved least by your parents’ then you need to be working them out with a counselor. No girlfriend can fill that void or right that wrong. Putting that burden on a relationship, a person to be that much to you, is WAY too much pressure and you will push away potential gf’s out of the sheer crushing nature of what you’re seeking (which is NOT what a healthy relationship looks like). I’m sorry this isn’t what you want to hear. Deal with your ‘baggage’ or it will affect any future relationship, I promise. </p>
<p>Wanting people in your life, friends, a mate, absolutely is human nature that most people seek. That’s not what you’re describing. A counselor at your school would be very adept at helping young people with these types of issues. I think you’d find it helpful. I’m in no way invalidating what you feel. I’m cautioning you’re not going to ‘solve’ what is bothering you with a relationship, and the way you’re describing a relationship is not healthy/realistic.</p>
<p>Except for me, it is no boyfriend – but that’s okay. The circumstances of my adolescence are a little different than most - I have very strict parents (a Sunni Muslim Dad and Irish Catholic Mother - both of whom are helicoptering and iron fisted) - so I’m not even allowed to go out most of the time with friends, and relationships/pre-marital sex are a big no-no.</p>
<p>I can’t say I eelate but you should just “go with the flow”. There is a destiny or whatever for you…</p>
<p>@preamble1776 same :3 except im korean american and they kinda chose the first round of “acceptable” husbands</p>