<p>Poseidenj, you should become aware of other resources in addition to need-based aid. Be realistic, but also optimistic.</p>
<p>My income, and S2’s college savings, were a bit too high for him to qualify for any (but not so high that cost is not a concern). However, he did get a couple of nice merit award offers. The Ivies and top New England LACs usually do not offer these. Many excellent schools in the midwest and south do (Grinnell, Macalester, Chicago, Tulane for example), and will stack them atop any need-based aid. In addition, my S recently won a significant cash prize in a writing contest (yes I’m bragging, but am also trying to make this real to you. He tried twice, failed the first time, but kept at it). Various competitions (or “outside” scholarships) are out there that offer good rewards and are not 1-in-a-million shots. Many CC kids have strong math skills, which can command high hourly fees to tutor high school students. Finally, perhaps you have enough IB/AP credits to qualify for sophomore standing at some colleges. This may be a last resort as a cost-cutting measure. My own kid does not feel it would shortchange his experience too much if he gets it, because he is eager to move on to professional school after college.</p>
<p>In other words, you don’t have to sit back and gamble that FA alone will bring the costs in line. Keep your antennae up, you can get ideas on this forum or maybe from your school GC. Last but not least, be sure to identify a financial and academic safety you’d be happy to attend.</p>