<p>I have a close family friend who faced the same choice several years ago. He was torn, but eventually choose Harvard and had a good experience there. I spent a lot of time talking with him about the choice. I think there are differences between the two schools that extend beyond the weather.</p>
<p>1) Undergraduates almost universally love Stanford. With Harvard, there is a split of opinion. Some love Harvard, others dislike it. When my friend was considering his college choice, I spoke with a recent graduate of Harvard. His advice was blunt; “Tell your friend to go to Stanford.” I ask why. His response: “Harvard doesn’t really care about you. You are just one more person in a 300 year old history.” I never told my friend this story.</p>
<p>2) Having said this, if you are focused going in, Harvard can be great. For instance, I know several students who had a great experience at the Crimson. From reading both papers, it is clear that the Crimson is better than the Stanford Daily. On the other hand, if a student is not focused going into Harvard, he/she can be eaten up. I think this is what happened to the person I spoke with who was negative on his Harvard experience.</p>
<p>3) Faculty are probably more approachable at Stanford. Even among the elite schools, Harvard has a reputation of having faculty who are not approachable, certainly to undergrads and to some extent even to grad students. A friend of mine has a son who went to Harvard. After his son graduated, he told me, “Sam had a great experience at Harvard but it had nothing to do with the faculty. It had everything to do with his experience on the Crimson.” (BTW, Sam did extremely well academically–very top of his Harvard class.)</p>
<p>4) Harvard is weak in some academic areas, whereas Stanford probably is not. For instance, Stanford probably has the top statistics department in the world. Harvard’s is far weaker. Stanford is very good in engineering. Harvard much less so, perhaps due to the impact of MIT. Such departments may or may not be relevant for you. Of course, Harvard has many top departments (classics, economics, etc.).</p>
<p>Hope this helps. Best of luck.</p>