<p>So my whole life, I've always had more girl-friends than guys. I "blame" it on my childhood as I spent most of my time with my mom and sis, as my dad worked like all day lol. To me, girls are just easier to talk to. I can be myself without worrying about being judged. With guys, I feel like I have to be all macho and stuff, and since I'm not in sports or anything that constitutes as "manly", I find this hard to do. Plus I find it easier to make girls laugh, and I can be my chatty self around them. Only problem is, I'm straight lol. And because of everything else, I usually get friend zoned. And I feel really uncomfortable when I'm in a group of only guys. Anyway to overcome this? Btw sorry for the big wall of text, sent from my iPhone :P</p>
<p>You just need to find the right guy friends. I know so many that act way too close (and it can make people think otherwise) but do you have any childhood/middle school friends? Guys you’ve known for a long time or things like that? The guys I know, who are super close, have known each other for years. It’s never to late to make friends!</p>
<p>This is a precarious situation, as usually guys with all girl-friends are gay, haha.</p>
<p>This is the same way with me, girls are just easier to talk to about stuff.</p>
<p>Oh I forgot to add, I do have some guy friends, so it’s not like I’m “guy ■■■■■■■■”, but I just came to this realization when I was playing Ultimate Frizbee yesterday, and I was on a team with all guys…well let’s just say I totally didn’t fit in lol</p>
<p>I think the whole “friend-zone” issue is just because you’re in high school. I have more friends who are girls than guys, but I’m gay. They didn’t know I was gay till this year, though, but weren’t interested before (friend-zone), then once I “came out” (lol, that term is horrible) to them they were suddenly interested and determined I wasn’t gay and they couldn’t see me with a guy more than they can see me with a girl.</p>
<p>Lol, to the point, not much you can do about it. Just wait for college. Girls like guys like that, trust me. Right now most girls are going through a high school phase where they seek rebellious, overly macho guys to prove something to their peers. Trust me, my best friend does this all the time. She admits to it.</p>