@labegg I have been following your postings since we both posted on similar schools. The obvious choice really seems to be Texas A&M. Highly ranked school and financially affordable. The reason the Florida schools have a high percentage of instate students is due to three reasons, affordability, Florida Pre Paid, and Bright Futures scholarship. I would not count in attaining residency in Florida.
Having said that, if your daughter is not have any desire to stay in Texas, then both Florida Schools would be very good options, assuming you have no issues with cost.Keep in mind that both Florida and Florida State are not necessarily cheap airports to fly into or easy to get into. Loyola and College of Charleston are great schools in very nice cities, but for sure not the large rah rah schools you are considering.
On a side note, the daughter of a good friend on mine graduated in forensics/psychology from the University of Kansas. She was just accepted to the University of Denver graduate forensics program. He is looking at a very large expense. Something to keep in mind as you look ahead into the future.