Chance a Transfer in a Situation?

Chance Me / Match Me!
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<p>Hey guys! I was wondering if any of you could chance me for the following schools (I'm studying international relations and languages, by the way):</p>

<p>Georgetown
Middlebury
JHU
University of Chicago
UCSD
U Penn (Legacy)</p>

<p>I will be a freshman at St. Louis University in the fall. Now, you might thinking: why is this kid asking about transferring before even starting school?! Well, I think my situation is kind of unique. I've included a post below from another thread I started (sorry about posting the whole thing - my phone wouldn't let me link the other thread) in order to give some background. </p>

<p>To be honest, there's a real chance I might end up falling in love with SLU come this fall. On the other hand, I would prefer to avoid a repeat of my first experience with the college admissions process, so I'm planning ahead just in case. ;)</p>

<p>Also, here are the classes (total = 18 credits) I'm planning to take this fall:</p>

<p>Intro to Law
U101
Honors Crossroads
Intro to Forensic Science
Politics of the Developing World
Spanish 315 - Oral Communication
Chinese 110 - Beginning Chinese</p>

<p>Thanks in advance for any advice/recommendations!</p>

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<p>I want to start off by saying I'm not exactly sure why I'm making this thread; I guess I just want to tell people my story. I hope it can serve as an example for other people.</p>

<p>I began my college search as a typical freshman - naive about what really mattered in a school. I bounced around between several first choices as the years progressed, but I eventually settled on Georgetown University. Visiting the campus only confirmed my hunch - it was the school for me. I convinced myself that was where I was meant to be. I also put together what I thought was a good mix of seven other schools:</p>

<p>Yale
SLU
Stanford
Middlebury
GWU
Dartmouth
Wash U</p>

<p>There were a couple reaches, some matches, and a couple safeties; I thought I was set. I don't really want to get into stats/ECs, but some context is needed; I had a 4.0 GPA and received a perfect score on my ACT. I'm an Eagle Scout, did a varsity sport, and was involved in a good mix of extracurriculars with a focus on politics and law (with a couple leadership positions thrown in there, too).</p>

<p>While I may have been optimistic (as I always am about things), I certainly didn't expect to get into all of those schools. I expected a healthy assortment of rejections and acceptances (and maybe a waitlist or two). However, after the process was over, I found myself with one acceptance - to a safety school (SLU) I liked well enough but never dreamed of attending. My mom cried multiple times throughout the week of April 1st because she felt so bad for me.</p>

<p>Now, you might be expecting this next part to be where I rant about affirmative action and claim I was only rejected or waitlisted because I'm a white male, or where I say my life was ruined because of the admissions officers at <em>insert school here</em>... Sorry to disappoint you. To be honest, from my perspective my life is going great right now. My senior year - regardless of my experiences with the college admissions process - was definitely my best year of high school by far. Due to a lot of different factors - an amazing retreat I went on with some classmates/teachers, naturally becoming more outgoing, growing more in my faith, or for whatever combination of reasons - I met so many great people, made a lot of new friends, and had some of the best times of my life. </p>

<p>I guess the point I'm making is that I value being able to look back on a senior year filled with lots of laughter and nice memories instead of bitterness and regret. You can't let a rejection - or two, or three, or however many - get you down. An admissions decision (as my friends and family have affirmed many times) isn't a characterization of you as person; just because you were rejected doesn't mean you're worthless or not good enough. I want to say again - that is absolutely not the case. We all have the potential to succeed, no matter where we end up. </p>

<p>Perhaps it's a blessing in disguise that my whole college application process turned out the way it did; I'm a big believer in the idea that everything happens for a reason. Even though it may seem impossible, you can't be afraid to proudly accept whatever life throws your way. I think a quote from one of my favorite books, Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl, would be appropriate:</p>

<p>"The way in which a man accepts his fate and all the suffering it entails, the way in which he takes up his cross, gives him ample opportunity — even under the most difficult circumstances — to add a deeper meaning to his life."</p>

<p>Thanks for hearing me out. To any of you who may be in a situation similar to mine - don't let a school (or schools) ruin your life. Enjoy it to the fullest - no matter what it throws at you.</p>

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<p>This is a very nice post, although there’s not really much that can be said to chance you. Like you said, you haven’t started college yet… lol.
Your aspiring transfer schools are very difficult to get in to however, so make sure that you try very hard in your first semester. You appear to have been a very good student in hs so I don’t think you’ll have a problem with that.
Good luck!</p>

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<p>I’m really sorry to hear that you only got into one of your schools, its certainly eye opening. No one can chance you right now, that’s impossible because you haven’t taken a class yet. I just wonder, was your essay just horrible or did someone say you were the worst person in the world in one of your recs because I can’t imagine how someone with a 4.0 and 36 didn’t at least get into GWU or Wash U for that matter. Anyways, if anyone is going to chance you, he or she is going to need your high school stats, classes, type of school, essays, etc. Based on what you have it’s really impossible to chance you.</p>

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<p>Personally, I have also experienced this disappointment of not getting into the schools I wanted to go to. I think I felt the same way as you did when I initially went to my safety school, Pitt. I tried to bury my feelings of disappointment and bitterness deep with positivity and tried to convince myself that I would love Pitt. But I realized that I was really just in denial and was still feeling horrible. Like you, I did not remember my senior year with bitterness and disappointment but remembered it positively but that still did not help anything. It took me a while before I could really face the truth. Before facing the truth, I had started to slip as a student because I kept trying not to focus on the things that would remind me of the disappointment of not getting into my choice colleges, mainly, doing homework and classwork. I started the year pretty poorly because of that. The good thing was that I was able to face the truth quickly and rapidly improved my grades so that I was able to salvage some A-'s. After facing my real emotions, I finally began channeling them into positive results, using them as motivation to excel academically and ensure that I would never have to feel that way again. It’s put me in a much stronger position as a result. I obviously don’t know how you truly feel but because of your post, I get the feeling that you are also deeply disappointed and bitter about the experience of not getting into the good colleges. Obviously I’m not telling you to hate your school or to look down on your school but I am saying burying the negative feelings may have negative consequences. Your better off facing them and trying to use them for something positive. Anyways, those are my thoughts on this matter. Hopefully your transferring experience is a lot more positive than your initial college experience. Good luck!</p>

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<p>@anthonyxy21 - Thanks for your input! And you’re right; I probably should have included more stats.</p>

<p>Math II: 750
US History: 740
Literature 740</p>

<p>Main ECs:
Scouting (Eagle Scout, various leadership roles in my Troop)
Track (Varsity hurdler)
Law Club (Photographer)
Model UN (Head Delegate)
Political Club</p>

<p>I had a few other awards/volunteer activities, but I’m doing this from my phone right now so it’s hard to list everything. I also took 5 AP courses and various honors courses throughout high school; my schedule was pretty rigorous.</p>