<p>For those reading this revived thread, just want to mention that celiac testing/biopsy are not accurate if you have been substantially off gluten for a period of time. You need to go back on gluten for a minimum of 6 months, to get an accurate test/biopsy, and in our daughter’s case, we decided that certainly was not worth it!</p>
<p>Also, colleges should be providing alternatives, such as gluten-free pasta or breads, for kids with celiac or even intolerance. Meet with the head of food services, not the people in the kitchen. Some kids are allowed off a meal plan, and microwave gluten-free meals, generally rice dishes. This would be discussed with an administrator: we have never failed to get an offer to waive the required meal plan fee, but it has worked better to have the college provide gluten-free food in the plan.</p>
<p>Our daughter has several chronic conditions and I would also like to say to everyone that the first year is the hardest. I wrote a bitter post three years ago, but the last two years have been wonderful. It is really helpful to find a person who works for the college, to help, and that person is not always in the disabilities office.</p>
<p>Separation happens, but more slowly. I brought my daughter home one night, with a funny feeling that something bad was going to happen. It did. If I hadn’t brought her home, she would have died in the dorm room. It is hard to separate under circumstances that we are all dealing with, but we have to do it. The next night, I drove her back and left her there, and I just left her again last week. There is no other choice.</p>
<p>For the recent poster, your daughter should have a stool, period. That should be an easy accommodation to obtain. It would be best if your daughter could speak with the teacher, and, if that fails, an administrative person. She should have her own stool, perhaps the same one every time. It could be put in a closet or something, for her to take out. They might have to be creative. She will have to get over her embarrassment. There is certainly no shame in having plantar fascitis. I understand it is uncomfortable, but there are ways that a stool can be saved for her with her privacy still relatively intact.</p>