Thanks, everyone for the inputs. As I know a number of people are following this thread and are interested in both the schools that have been identified publicly as well as in private messages, I’ll provide my tally below. Keep in mind that precision is difficult for several reasons: (a) Some people mentioned generalizations (for example, LACs or NESCACs) and in those cases I did not score a point for each of the NESCACS, only if a school was mentioned by name; (b) In some posts after I mentioned some of my D’s stats it wasn’t 100% clear to me whether the schools were being mention because they were an academic fit or because they were a fit AND collaborative, so I assumed the latter; © Some people wrote what I considered mixed messages so it was hard for me to count them either way (I put Cornell and Williams in that hybrid group); (d) Some people may not have mentioned a school because they saw it mentioned before, so the counts may not mean too much; and (e) some people mentioned the same schools in more than one post, so I tried to only count that as 1 mention, but I could have missed something. So with those caveats, especially the one that I’m not perfect, here’s my count:
MOST COLLABORATIVE:
Generalizations: NESCACs, LACs generally, Catholic schools generally, Religious schools generally
Specific:
Bates (7 mentions)
Bowdoin (5)
Haverford (5)
Carleton (4)
Colby (4)
Hamilton (4)
Oberlin (4)
Conn College (3)
Lafayette (3)
Wesleyan (3)
Colgate (2)
Dickinson (2)
Grinnell (2)
Harvey Mudd (2)
Middlebury (2)
Mount Holyoke (2)
Notre Dame (2)
Trinity (2)
Tufts (2)
Whitman (2)
Amherst (1)
Brown (1)
Holy Cross (1)
Kenyon (1)
Macalaster (1)
MIT (1)
Muhlenberg (1)
RPI (1)
St. Lawrence (1)
Swarthmore (1)
UPenn (1)
UVM (1)
Yale (1)
LEAST COLLABORATIVE / MOST HYPER-COMPETITIVE OR CUTTHROAT
Generalizations: Ivies; Graduate programs, Pre-med …
Specific:
Swarthmore (3 mentions)
Johns Hopkins (2)
Amherst (1)
Georgetown (1)
Tufts (1)
Wellesley (1)
NOTABLY:
Three Ivies were described as collaborative: Brown, UPenn, and Yale
Three schools showed up both lists. Amherst and Tufts each got 1 mention on each list; Swarthmore got 1 mention on the collaborative list and 3 mentions on the hyper-competitive list.
Some people felt compelled to mention schools outside the requested region (the Northeast); perhaps that speaks particularly strongly for those schools (or maybe it just reflects the schools that people are familiar with).
Overall, I found this to be very helpful. It’s not a science, there are no absolutes, but I do think cultural differences exist. I appreciate people sharing their perspectives and I encourage you to continue to do so. I’d like to keep this thread more general and on point to the collaborative versus hyper-competitive cultures as opposed to giving specific advice for my D. If anyone has specific recommendations for my D, I certainly welcome them, but preferably in a PM. Thanks!!