<p>Thank you for that great advice, Donemom. I contacted the music department, but I didn't specifically ask the conductor for an audition. That is a wonderful idea. Do you think it's too late? </p>
<p>Thanks, again, everyone. I really appreciate all the help from the Parent's Board. </p>
<p>Thank you, Alumother, for your kind words.</p>
<p>Its hard to fully advise without knowing the nature of the contacts you've already had, but, in general, I don't think its too late for RD. I would e-mail them, and say that while you know how very busy they must be, you would love the opportunity to audition in person. (my friend's son plays the oboe, so perhaps he got the audition because there are so few of them, but it can't hurt to inquire). Also, if they don't already have a run-down of your musical accomplishments, attach a "music resume" with your e-mail, so they know you're the "real deal".</p>
<p>Great. Thanks a lot.</p>
<p>When I read your post, Oberlin came to mind. Music department is great. It's not too far from the east coast. Gay friendly. Very strong creative writing program. I believe it is also quite respectable in math and science. And, the atmosphere is relatively intellectual - several of your choices seem to suggest this is something you prefer. I also think it's quirky with an edge, if that makes sense. Great place if it's a fit for you.</p>
<p>No one has mentioned Carnegie Mellon so I will. Other than the fact it's a little larger than what you mentioned (at about 5400 undergrads it feels smaller) it seems to have what you're looking for:</p>
<p>It's in a city, has a great faculty that's known for being accessible, strong math and creative writing programs, and an outstanding School of Music. There is a large School of Fine Arts presence on campus. Overall campus attitude is liberal and gay-friendly.</p>
<p>Well, based on your stats...I'd say you should be shooting for schools more like Rutgers and Wassamatta U. You've got way too many top schools on your list. Notre Dame as a safety? Idk, I think you should set more realistic goals for yourself.</p>
<p>As most people know, stats do not tell everything. You have not seen GC (who deals with only about ten students) knows me and my school very well, and he thinks that I have a very good and balanced list. As for ND, I am a legacy, and though I don't have a building with my name on it, we give enough money to get football tickets for sold out games.</p>
<p>I just realized that part of a sentence was deleted. Here is the post with the left out part inserted again:</p>
<p>As most people know, stats do not tell everything. You have not seen my specific scores, my classes, recs, essays, or my music recording. Furthermore, my GC (who deals with only about ten students) knows me and my school very well, and he thinks that I have a very good and balanced list. As for ND, I am a legacy, and though I don't have a building with my name on it, we give enough money to get football tickets for sold out games.</p>