<p>Both Oberlin and Ohio Wesleyan will fit a lot of what you are looking for...Good science and music performance, schools not too small, not too large, midwest to east coast (not south), likes idea of LAC.</p>
<p>definitely Carnegie Mellon. They have a great drama/music department. Drama is ranked #2 after Julliard, Music I do not know but I'm sure its up there.</p>