Common app essay topics

I currently have three topics focusing on different perspectives and would like to hear your thoughts on this:

  1. through debate experince (partner changed a couple times ) learned changes managemnt - not afraid of change and proactively manage the situation
  2. I like observing people on bus and from their face expression and body language to infer what they are thinking. From this put my feet into other shoes to show care and think from other people’s perspective
  3. Starting from my story writting about a foreign couple on bus to show how I was shifted from optimistic (little girl only see good things about the world) to pessimistic (real war, tradewar, border issues ) , and then realistic view of the world ( bad and good coexist ).
    I would love to hear your candid feedback. Thanks for your help in advance