OP, I am in the same situation! I want to attend a reputable school where I can receive a strong education, but it needs to NOT be aggressively liberal. I don’t need to attend a “conservative” school, per se; I’m not even religious. However, some of the schools I’ve visited have been liberal to the point where it’s clear I would not fit in (or have friends on campus, ever) even if I were accepted.
I went to visit a “top” school recently. They were pretty cold to the fact that I am an older, non-traditional transfer applicant, went to a community college, etc. When we went around the room to introduce ourselves, most students basically listed their resume. I guess I could have as well… I am in the honors program, Phi Theta Kappa and all that stuff. I’ve also studied abroad. However, I made the mistake of listing my actual/genuine hobbies: fishing, shooting, camping, auto repair (I fix cars for people in my town who can’t afford to get their cars repaired at the shop), etc.
Every.single.person. in the room gave me a dirty look, and the admissions officer avoided me like plague the rest of the visit… The vibe was clear: “You’re redneck (and probably right-wing) trash; stay away.” It was so awkward that I actually left the visit early. There is no way in h*ll I’m going to a school like that. It’s one thing to be liberal; it’s another to treat people from another culture like dirt. (For the record, despite voting Republican most of the time, I also support gay rights, I don’t think it’s right to discriminate against Muslims, etc. I think it’s very sad that we’ve become so polarized that the “other side” is immediately racist, homophobic, sexist, etc.). What is even scarier is that some schools are now demanding that faculty members resign if they say something they don’t agree with, or ban right-wing speakers completely. I am NOT interested in going to a school like that.
I agree with one of the above suggestions that you may fit in better at a flagship state school. I got into both Kansas and Mizzou’s honors programs and am seriously considering Mizzou.
Other schools you may want to look into:
Tulane (their students actually lean left, but they’re located in the south and I would say maybe 25% of their students are conservative/moderate, so they’re not the “you need to resign/be kicked out of school if you disagree with us” type)
Vanderbilt (same deal; relatively liberal school, but because of its location, they are less “my way or the highway”)
Saint Louis University (Jesuit school, moderate student body)
Carnegie Mellon is pretty middle-of-the-road to leftist, but people can express their opinions there without getting into trouble. (I went there last summer, actually, and people were great.)