<p>I don't know my biological father and neither does my mother. I have never met him and my mom doesn't know who it is (personal). Anyway, for a school I'm applying to they are asking for the non-custodial parent to fill something out.. What should I do?</p>
<p>You file the NCP waiver.</p>
<p>Where do I find that?</p>
<p>Ask the school. AFAIK there is no single form that applies to all.</p>
<p>Usually it is just a letter from a high school official.</p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
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<p>Actually, you’ll usually be required to provide a statement from a reliable person who is not a family member (e.g., clergy or social worker) who knows the family well and can attest to the fact that Dad hasn’t been in the picture. In your case, that shouldn’t be difficult.</p>
<p>That letter would be an attachment to the actual NCP waiver request which you must ask for from the college.</p>
<p>The school I’m applying to responded and they want a letter from me, my mom, and an impartial third party… What should my letter say? That I don’t know my father?</p>
<p>You or your mom are probably going to have to provide some private info…</p>
<p>Obviously, we don’t know your circumstances, but if the pregnancy was the result of a sperm donation, then that might need to be stated…maybe documentation will need to be provided. If the pregnancy was the result of a casual encounter, then your mom will have to speak to that and you’ll simply state that you don’t know who your father is, you don’t know his name, his whereabouts, nor his family.</p>
<p>The 3rd party person will likely have to be someone who has known you long term (clergy, doctor, neighbor) who can state that your father has never been in your life.</p>
<p>Thank you so much!</p>
<p>If no father is named on your birth certificate, I would mention that.</p>