I found that Amherst more than makes up for the lower expected student contribution, by expecting a higher family contribution - at least for families in our income bracket. And we always looked at what the total net cost to the whole family - including loans - would be. It was always frustrating to me to see how some schools consider loans or work-study as part of their financial aid offer. We are a single income family, with negligible savings, but not at the very low end compared to many families. Dartmouth, Brown, Cornell, Pomona, Williams, Swat, and Amherst were all far more expensive ($2K - $13K per year more) for us than Yale, Columbia, Princeton, MIT or Stanford would have been. Some of the reasons for these differences are how the schools treat family income, home equity, 401K, etc. all differently.
For students at the lower end of the family income scale, who don’t have to pay anything anyway, I have read that Amherst might be as cheap, or even a cheaper option. I didn’t bother to run numbers at income levels lower than our own.
@twoinanddone - yes, I was doing comparisons for full-needs met schools, and for multiple students, as that is our family situation. Now that S graduated, our family cost for D increased, but at Stanford they didn’t skyrocket as bad as they would have at some of the other full needs schools. It was important to me to figure out how much this could have jumped, because even among great FA schools, there can be a lot of variability. Running the NPC’s with a smaller number of family members in undergrad can make little to no difference, or a huge difference, depending on the family income.
And @privateID , I agree that for many of us, it makes perfect sense for the children to give all their cash to the parents, to appear as poor as possible, since the parents are assessed at a lower rate than the child. This was the distinct impression that I got from the example of the family with twins - if child A had given his remaining earnings to his parents before he applied, while child B might have gotten a little less, child A could have gotten a lot more aid. The schools are clearly aware of this, they know how their formula works. I suspect that they are surprised when families don’t do so.