<p>PTM, there are connections and there are connections. "I know your work from so-and-so" is one thing, the country club style "I drink and play golf/squash" with so-and-so is another. Both kinds of connections work. The latter kind is responsible for a large proportion of the empty suits you find in advertising, public relations, marketing, real estate, financial services and other fields where an ability to bull***** goes along social connections and a developed sense of how to pass the buck in achieving "success." </p>
<p>Erin's Mom, maybe it's because I've lived "urban" all my life but the area around SC, at least during the day, doesn't bother me much. Yes, compared to, say, Northampton, MA, one needs to maintain situational awareness but that's a prudent attitude I'd maintain in most large cities. (I think U/Chicago's rep for "unsafe" is also an instance of reputation lagging reality.)</p>
<p>TSDad, I don't know if you were addressing me but I have no quarrel with USC on the issue of diversity, nor respect due via its affiliation with the AAU. (Btw, some politics delayed UCLA's admittance thereto...some members had reservations about a single system having multiple reps...UCLA opened Pandora's box with four addtional UC campuses joining in subsequent years. UC now has six members, no other state system has more than one.) </p>
<p>HIMom, engineering and pre-med are going to be pretty rigorous no matter where you go; party too much and you quickly flunk out. But aside from a few schools like CMU, engineering and the like seldom define a campus culture and they certainly don't at USC.</p>
<p>Myriad, there is no question that someone like your son can find their own niche...but "niche" is what he's finding, something outside the dominant mainstream.</p>
<p>LTS, your charge against UCLAri for being "unethical" or "hypocritical" due to his affiliation with UCLA or holding a moderator position is an example of sloppy writing and thinking one of my prof friends (who is major USC football honk, fwiw) talks about. There is nothing in his position that is hypocritical--saying one thing while believing another--nor is any part of it unethical. You mean "biased" and if he is biased, he is no less so than you are. Sloppy thinking, sloppy writing.</p>
<p>FilmProspect, I know of many schools, from Dartmouth to Reed, from Carleton to Texas A&M, whose alum display pride in their school. I've never heard of any other school that has several alum per block flying flags and all the other b.s. that Trojan alum indulge in. (I wish I'd bought some of the Trojan toilet paper that they sold in the USC store before someone realized it was a bad idea...the musical toilet seat that plays the USC fight song is bad enough.) Yes, it's pompous and jeerworthy.</p>
<p>QW553, you give another example of sloppy writing. For starters, you need to distinguish between "hatred" and "dislike" or "disdain." Mark Twain said the difference between the right word and the wrong was the difference between "lightning" and "lightning bug." (I told TheMom about this thread and she snorted about the usage of "fake" intellectual as opposed to "faux" or "pseudo.") Orange County has an excellent performing arts complex and the area around Laguna is very nice. South OC also suffers from a "guard gate" mentality, correlating with its heavy infestation of Repbulicans, and Fashion Island is a monument to wretched excess, self-entitlement, self-indulgence, and overblown materialism...so, yeah, from my perspective there's a lot to dislike. YMMV.</p>