<p>Lunch=mall=shopping. :]</p>
<p>very true.</p>
<p>Ha ha no kidding. Money + Time = Girls are Evil. LOL [Is hyper forgive me]</p>
<p>where did you hear that from. I heard that from one of my teachers.</p>
<p>From my APUSH teacher. Ha ha he is sooo funny! [cracks up]</p>
<p>Yes I think lunch would be nice.</p>
<p>P.S. Once I saw a man trying to eat a slice of pizza with a plastic fork and knife. How sad.</p>
<p><em>gasp</em>
A plastic knife and fork? How uncool.</p>
<p>Everyone knows that only proper silverware will do.
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<p>It was so pathetic. Maybe he was eating with his boss or something, but I like just thinking "Man, just use your fingers!"</p>
<p>Life's much easier when you eat pizza manually.</p>
<p>haha funny... i'm debating over whether to ask a girl called kate out too... not sure if she's itnerested tho! dang, girls shoudl be more up front about these things!</p>
<p>and no, i don't live in california ;)</p>
<p>I'm sure Kate would love to go out with you.</p>
<p>Alright, from my long list of failures and short list of successes with relationships here is what I would do:</p>
<p>First and foremost you need to find out if he really does like you. Im not sure how you go about doing it but your instinct should be able to tell you if he does. If you have doubts, just give some hints before you ask him. Some guys like girls that are direct and others want to take control. </p>
<p>Second, if he does like you then the choice of date doesnt really matter. You just need to make sure that you have some time to talk. If he is one of these guys that cant stand awkward situations, then take him to something that will keep his mind busy(ie. movie, sporting event, play, loud party, Concert
). I would not recommend that though because then you really will not have an opportunity to get to know him. Usually a public place is not the way to go. I agree with the poster that said invite him over for a study date, or if it is warm in your area meet him at the park and go for a nice walk. Something that gives you some personal bonding time - this is needed especially on first dates. If you are a good talker and can say something above the superficial then this is another reason to do something of this nature. The Zoo or an Aquarium is also an interesting option. </p>
<p>Third, when you are actually on the date dont over think it. Be yourself - that way it is fair to the guy and he will know what he is getting into. Also try to loosen things up with flirtatious gestures and jokes. Thats always a good starting point. Whatever you do just try to understand what type of person he is in person and outside of school. </p>
<p>Fourth, dont be afraid of a small kiss. Many guys will pull that on the first date and as long he doesnt touch too much a goodbye kiss will make him feel good and wont cause damage. I used to hate when some girls were too nervous to even give a small kiss at the age of 14, although i understood why they didnt on the first date. </p>
<p>So in summary:
If he is ADD, or always needs entertainment:</p>
<p>movie, sporting event, play, loud party, Concert</p>
<p>If you want to talk:</p>
<p>movie at home
"study" date
walk in park
Aquarium
Museum
Zoo</p>
<p>I hope this helps and good luck.</p>
<p>Nature hiking!</p>
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<p>dude she has a back injury and plus they would get all sweaty. Great first date.</p>
<p>^ Haha. I second that.</p>
<p>^Cute, but at first there was this woman popped up in my face. Some dating site ad, ew. Haha, thanks though.</p>
<p>Hahahaha. The dating site ad popped up for me, too.</p>
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<p>If that is so, then I will suggest that she also carry a backpack (lightweight).</p>
<p>sorry, I didn't read the part where she said she had a back injury. But if you think about it, hiking or some form of exercise could actually help her recover, as long as the activity isn't too strenuous.* If not used, muscles can get weaker, making back problems worse. </p>
<p>*Needless to say, i'm not an authority figure, so consult your doctor.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.backpacking.net/bad-back.html%5B/url%5D">http://www.backpacking.net/bad-back.html</a></p>
<p>Besides, you suggested going to a movie, when she clearly said she would rather not do that.
We're even.</p>
<p>Is this a temporary back injury or something?</p>
<p>no i said a movie only if the guy could not carry on a good conversation. Notice how i said i would not recommend going to a movie or any loud form of entertainment.</p>
<p>hey kate, are you really 13 years old?</p>