<p>I think I would place a call to that motivational speaker that gave you the idea of all of the scholarships that you thought you would get and let him know your situation. </p>
<p>Here is the thing: I know you have big plans for the future. 4.0 in college, oh yes, and big fat juicy internships to pay off those loans you are going to get your parents to take out, and then a very high paying job that 's going to take care of all you and they borrow. Do you think for a nanosecond that this isn’t the way a lot of kids think too? Some of them don’t even need to badger their parents to borrow, have their way paid by merit, need award or just their parent’s money, are straightaway in a top school or program, have connections to the field through family–often very deep seeded ones, and have already shown that they can test high and do well in very rigorous settings. And most of them are NOT going to meet that goal. And you think YOU, who have shown nothing of that mettle yet are going to do better than the top of THAT group? The chances are ludicrously low. Yes, can happen, but I don’t think so. Yes, you can do it but that isn’t the optimal way to do so, I guarantee you. I’ve had kids going to college and know their experiences and that of their peers now for 10 year afterwards, so I have a pretty good idea how this works, not to mention that I know how the IB world works. As I may have said earlier, you might as well start buying mega lottery tickets. You can strike it rich that way too.</p>
<p>The problem with your plan is not the aspirations, the goal, the determination or even whether or not you even have the “right stuff”. It’s that it is a high risk plan and you are putting your parents’ future on the line and they really aren’t gung ho about this. Even if they were, it would be something that is not smart. You want to go into business, finance, IB, you stop and think about what you are asking them to do. You asking them to borrow more than they can possibly afford if you don’t hit it right. What if you die, are disabled, just not make it? It’s one thing that you take it on the chin, …but them? How could you? You have better odds at Atlantic City, frankly, and you wouldn’t have them borrow for you to go to the craps table there. And that is all compressed in a short time period What you want to do, is going to take years of consistency, dliigence, hard work, and LUCK. All that time every dime they borrow is a growing debt due the nature of interest. Do the numbers. </p>
<p>The other thing is that you are a teenager with lots of big plans and ideas. That you had no idea how this whole college thing worked, that you believed superficial reassurances are both clear indicators you have no idea how thing are in the real world. And this is really simple stuff where they are taking money for chances. Wait till you have to go get the money. Then you meet the real sharks. </p>
<p>I’ve seen this scenario many times. If you really want to do this, study up on the courses you need to make it most likely to happen. Work your tail off at what options you have, the low cost ones. If you can show you reallly can make the grades at CC, taking a risk at transferring would be a more palatable one I, for one, am much more amenable for parents taking a chance on a 4.0 CC grad at age 20,wanting to go to Kelley or whatever school, than a 3.2 teenager who isn’t out of high school yet. It’s not like you are passing up any money IU is offering you. They’ll take you then , if they’ll take the likes of you now–in fact more likely as a top gun CC grad who has taken courses as similar as possible to those in the first years of the program you are eyeing at Kelley and doing extremely well in them. If it were a matter of them offering you big bucks to go there, and having to borrow, say $10K for the gap, and it’s the ideal program, that’s one thing. You are being offered the back door and told that your parents need to borrow for you to have this chance. This is NOT a good offer at all. They have nothing to lose, and your parents have a lot to lose if it doesn’t work out , and there is no guarantee you even get into the program you want even if all went well. </p>
<p>Better you do well those two years, and reassess as an older and wiser young man who has shown he can perform academically. It might be better to take some strong academic courses as inexpensively and as loan free as possible, focus on the GMAT, not the now old business, your SATs, and try to get into a top grade MBA program. As an AA with good grades and an early jump on the GMATS to do well on, I would say if you can stay on task, your chances would be excellent for entry at a top level MBA program, and then making top level salaries. I say this as one who has gone on that journey, and walked the walk, not just talking the talk. And it would all be on your own dime by then as YOU get to take the loans out for those programs. Lenders are not willing to bet a dime on teenagers like you with big plans–they grab your parents hostage; when you are college grad with an accept to a prof/grad program that holds promise, well now, that’s a different story. They’ll invest in you then as the outcome is very favorable. </p>