This thread caught my eye as a parent of a Junior who has visited each of these schools, some multiple times, and met with the coach in his sport at each school.
Oberlin has a distinct feel which I think kids either love or not. My view would be that, if a student didn’t jump at Oberlin, as a community and culture, and say “this is it, this is home,” then I’m not sure it would be a good fit. One of my kids liked it a lot, the other, not at all. How was your experience with the team at Oberlin? Did you feel comfortable with the guys and with the rest of the school? My own prospective athlete didn’t feel that Oberlin was a a community which supported sports the way he wanted in a D3 school – he doesn’t expect to be, or want to be, front and center, but he doesn’t want to be irrelevant either.
Kenyon certainly has the rural thing going, and good commitment to sustainability, buying local for the dining hall etc. The community sees itself as intellectual, and there is good energy about sports, what with the swimming national championships etc. I would spend some time with the Catalog, and perhaps email some profs/academic advisors, to investigate the options in environmental studies – can you design your own major, is there an emphasis within another major which you could develop to meet your needs?
As a community and culture, Dickinson is the most upfront about sustainability (organic farm for dining hall, and other examples I cannot recall off the top of my head), and the new Science building was gorgeous. Seems like a strong place to do environmental studies. We also found the student body to be more diverse, across the spectrum, than we expected. Though ranked lower than Oberlin and Kenyon, Dickinson struck us as much stronger, more vibrant academically than we expected.
St L is in a beautiful, remote setting, certainly meets your preferences for setting. If you were contemplating Midd, then you are presumably fine with winters that last well into what would otherwise be considered spring . . . I would look at the class size issue, if you can, I think it was St L where I was surprised that there were intro science lectures of 60-70 students since so many of these schools tout that even their intro classes are capped at smaller sizes, but we had been to a bunch of schools on that trip so maybe I am confusing it with another. But it is a beautiful school, seemed like neat kids, across a range of spectrum. They are using merit money to bring in talented students to add "oomph’ to the student body, so our impression is there are many smart, hard-working kids there.
If it were me, I think I would narrow it to half pay at Kenyon and full merit at St L. I’m not sure that Dickinson offers so much more than St L that it would be worth an extra $20-30 k a year, though Dickinson is a favorite of ours. Oberlin is just too unique and environment, so if a student didn’t love it, I would keep it off the list. The key question at Kenyon is getting specific info about their offerings in environmental studies, flexibility in designing a major etc.
Great choices, congrats on your options.