Did my roommate get my message?

<p>So I got my college roommate and I sent her a facebook friend request and a message and it said the message went to a different folder since we weren't friends. Like a minute later after I sent the message she accepted my friend request. I know you don't get a notification for those and it didn't say she read it so I resent it (now that we're friends.) It says she still hasn't opened it. But literally she was just on. Do you think it didn't work? I don't want to send it a third time but I don't really know what to do now.</p>