<p>Supruwoman, I appreciate all you have to say and the very respectful way you said it. Thank you. </p>
<p>One thing you said, though, caught my attention. You said “I bring this up because at other campuses I’ve been to that appear more diverse in terms of numbers, you have students hanging out only with others from their same ethnic/cultural background, and the end result is that in terms of student experience, they are not really exposed to ‘diversity.’”</p>
<p>Consider that at Elon, there are so few students of color that POC are pretty much <em>forced</em> to hang out with white students, aren’t they? Most of their classes are made up of white people, as are most social organizations, clubs and so on. (Yes, I know Elon does have black Greek orgs.) </p>
<p>Sp it would be nearly impossible for an Asian or black student (to use two examples) to hang around only with other Asian or black students, because their numbers are so small. But white students can, if they choose, pretty much hang out only with whites. (In fact, if you look at the photos of frats and sororities at Elon, and you will see that quite a number have NO members of color at all. So in the case of Elon, there are plenty of white kids who only choose to associate with other white kids.) </p>
<p>I am white and one thing I had to unlearn was <em>only</em> noticing when people of color are gathered together. Before I became a parent of a child of color, I would notice only that the black kids all sat together in the cafeteria and didn’t notice that the white kids, did, too. But yeah, they do. In fact, in most environments in my life and that of many people, white people are with a majority of white people all the time. </p>
<p>So while it is great for the white kids to be exposed to diversity via the low number of students of color at Elon, it is not always easy for the kids of color to be the ones affording the white kids that opportunity. Hope that makes sense.</p>
<p>I agree that the majority of the kids at Elon are great kids, but from comments my own child has heard, it sounds like quite a few have almost never been around racial minorities. </p>
<p>Evidence: On a visit for parents weekend, my husband and I witnessed two (white) girls mimicking (while laughing hysterically) an Asian boy who was eating in a dining hall. The boy was holding his bowl fairly close to his mouth (the way you see people do in China), which the two girls found beyond funny. They laughed loudly, imitated him, pointed at him and almost fell off their chairs with glee. Fortunately, the boy didn’t see them. Somehow, I doubt those girls will be attending any of the global/diversity related lectures and events being held during winter term.</p>