@econpop I agree with you. And if our Hs was rigid about this, I would fight to have it changed. The GC’s argument is, in their experience, outcomes are better if the students have a goal of no more than 10 apps. And they don’t just dictate it, they work a lot with the kids to get them to where 10 apps does make sense. If it doesn’t work out that way, then they support the kid who needs to apply to more. I can think of one such scenario (kid loves a safety, but wants to play 15 lottery tickets applications, too; this kid would be hurt by the rule assuming 15 apps are doable).
Are the outcomes better, on average, with this policy in place? Don’t know. Only have a data point of one. Did I bristle a bit when I first heard this rule? Yes. Did I assume that they must bend the rule sometimes? Yes. Did my kid? No. He followed their processes and procedures to the letter, because that is just the way he is. The 10 school rule was just one piece of the whole 18 month process.
The spirit of the rule, at least in our HS, is to treat the college search process very seriously. Each app is precious; parents will pay $, students will pay with time and someone will be charged with reviewing each app. Early in the process, during a meeting with the GC, when my son would throw a school out there (likely because of a recent NCAA success or something like that), it was never met with a ‘sure, if you want to give it a try.’ Instead, the attitude was ‘well, that might be a good choice as part of your strategy, but you need to understand a lot more before you are willing to give them one of your applications.’ That approach set the tone of an emphasis on the care needed in this process, and for my kid, who takes most things seriously, it resulted in an absurdly careful and therefore anxiety-free process (for him). The kids who did not follow the process? Freaking out right about now.
The other side benefit of the 10 app rule is the kids get practice in thinking hard about choosing a school. Knocking one off the list is an important exercise, as it kind of mimics the eventual final decision process. My kid became exceptional at knocking schools off of the list, but at the beginning it was REALLY hard for him. Having had to think through list membership so many times, and then living with that decision for a while, very much helped him zone in on what was really important to him. We learned a ton about him and he learned a lot about himself. This was spread out over a year, not jammed into 4 weeks with a countdown to May 1 looming. And as my kid knocked schools off of his list, he was able to have relatively easy conversations with us. He had his reasons, and they were always pretty rational and carefully thought out. For two of the schools he eliminated, it was a big disappointment to me and my husband. (H is somewhat obsessed with Notre Dame). Having that conversation now, pre-application, seems way better than having it later - when the stakes would have felt much higher. We all got practiced at thinking about college choices very deeply. And we would not have forced ourselves to care all that much about the list if it were not for the 10 app rule.
Having gone through this with three kids and seemingly hundreds of their friends and parents, I have never heard a single person say they wish they had applied to more. Have heard a LOT say they wish they’d done more careful research ahead of time and applied to fewer. The 10 app rule creates a dress-rehearsal scenario for the real thing. And it is a pretty major decision that can benefit from a dress rehearsal.