<p>At some point, I think, the student has to figure out what is truly do-able for the him/her, what is not, and then be able to accept the consequences of that. My S decided, after multiple switches on who was teaching Latin in his HS, and by junior year being with a teacher he found utterly disastrous and mean-spirited (this is a kid whom teachers ordinarily loved, and he had no problems with any others), he dropped language for senior year. We discussed the ramifications. The selective colleges he looked at recommended but did not require 4 years of language, but we knew, as has been discussed above, that not having the 4 would be a disadvantage. he decided he’d have to take the risk, as in his mind continuing was not an option (most of his class made the same decision, btw.)</p>
<p>The upshot was he was accepted into the two schools he applied to, a very competitive OOS U and an Ivy ED. He was prepared to apply elsewhere if he hadn’t, and knew he could attend the instate flagship, and so he made his choices accordingly.</p>
<p>I’m not recommending this strategy, but rather saying that sometimes it comes down to–“this is what’s doable for me, so I’ll have to work with whatever results it leads to.”</p>