<p>Private colleges are just that–private. Just like private high school. You have to pay tuition. You can apply for financial aid and they may have some scholarships, but the bottom line is that they do not have to accept students and they can charge what they please and if a family can’t afford to pay, it’ s out they go. There are NO government programs on a wide scale to help fund private school.</p>
<p>But then when it comes to college, all of a sudden, families and kids who had no thought of going private for k-12, suddenly think they have the right to go to these privates and the government or someone should pay for this. And oh, they need their meals covered and a place to live as well, right? Well, not right. It’s not a RIGHT to go to private school or to go away to school. COlleges do have financial aid in place to get a diversity in economics for student and due to the way they have to set up this aid, actually kids who get accepted to schools that have the money to spend for full need, can be better off, in that tiny niche of elite school attendance, than their peers with well to do parents who spent up their money or don’t want to pay for their kids. Those kids can’t get financial aid. Life’s not all fair, and that’s just the way it works. But the truth of the matter is that it’s only a small fraction of kids in difficult financial situations that get enough money to go away to a private school, especially these days when the tab can come to $60K+.</p>
<p>I’m not saying public school kids should stick to public colleges, oh no, not all. What I’m saying is that they have to understand that when they go to private schools, there is that premium that often has to be paid, and they are at the mercy of the school’s fin aid policies and merit awards if the parents won’t or can’t pay. </p>
<p>PELL, Direct Loans, will cover a local state school most of the time. Not likely to cover sleep aways, even public ones and certainly not private, and that’s all the federal government guarantees. The rest is up to the school.</p>
<p>In most of our country, there are CCs available at reasonable costs to most all high school grads so that a start can be made for college by just about everyone. But getting a 4 year degree can be a challenge for some students who are not within a commuting distance to a school where one can get that bachelor’s. And some states have expensive tuitions, shame on them, for their public universities. </p>
<p>The system is not deliberately set up to exclude poor kids, it’s just that being a capitalist society, it works that way, and school ultimately are run to make money too. It’s no accident that the % of kids getting aid, number of PELL eligbile kids stay about constant, though the sad truth is a lot of the most selective schools give an admissions bump for those financially challenged and do their quotas giving such kids extra consideration, not a limiting percentage because so many poor kids are the top of the crop. </p>
<p>I went to college on fin aid. 100%+ fin aid. Went to top priced private too. So did my husband. So,yes, we appreciate that the schools do have merit and financial aid, as I know I would never have been able to go to a private college otherwise. But it’s not an entitlement. If I didn’t get the money, I knew where I was going–to a two year extension school where my father had benefits of free tuition for his kids, and then I’d try to transfer to the four year program and have to borrow and work to pay my way there. No money from my family to pay for private school or even sleep aways. </p>