<p>I am a Stanford student and i have had some weird conversations with people about college. Here is the way it typically goes:</p>
<p>Where do you go to college?
Me: I go to Stanford.
(Person becomes interested in conversation)
Congratulations on getting in, you must be pretty smart. What is the secret to getting in?
Me: There really is no secret to getting in, just do the best you can in high school and take ECs that interest you. If you think you have a chance apply and see what happens.
Other questions about my major and where else I got into school followed.</p>
<p>This line of questioning pops up every time I tell someone I go to Stanford, and for that last question every time I get asked it what I want to say is “Your kid is in FITH GRADE stop worrying about where he is going to go to college, odds are he won’t be able to get into schools like Stanford and that is fine, it is not the end all be all of your existence. There are plenty successful of people who went to their flagship public. He probably won’t end up working at McDonalds if he does not go to a top 5 school”.</p>
<p>Many times I just want to avoid this line of questioning all together since it makes me angry, so I have come up with a way around it. Here is the way the conversation goes.</p>
<p>Where do you go to college?
Me: I go to LSJU (which stands for Leland Stanford Junior University).
Where is that?
Me: It is in San Francisco Bay Area.
How big of a school is it?
Me: It is a mid size school.
How good of a school is it? (Maybe not that blatant but some variation of it)
Me: It’s a pretty good school.
A lot of times the conversation ends here, but some times they ask what LSJU stands for.
In which case I will mumble “Leland Stanford” and then emphasis the “Junior” in “Junior University”. They normally will stop talking about college after that happens.</p>
<p>As for the more important part of your question “Do they have better professors” I would have to answer yes in my experience, but my experience is more like comparing a new Jaguar to a Toyota Camry from 83 that has been through hell.</p>
<p>I took some classes at a community college since I exhausted all of the math and science classes at my school. I would ask one of my professors a question and they would have a very difficult time coming up with an answer to it, and many times they did not explain it well. Sometimes they couldn’t even come up with an answer at all. They also watered down the material and I did not need to do any outside homework in the class to get an A.</p>
<p>One thing that surprised me though was the number of hard working students there. Sure slackers were the norm, but at the same time I met some people who were pretty dedicated to their work and wanted to do well. They screwed up in high school and they turned themselves around.</p>
<p>Let’s compare that to my experiences at Stanford. I go into office hours and I ask a question. I get an instantaneous and complete answer. I can even ask a TA here a question and they will frequently give me a better answer than my community college professors would.</p>
<p>Granted, I don’t know what the difference is between a flag ship state school and a top private.</p>