<p>Here's what happens many years down the road, if you go to a fine LAC such as Amherst, Oberlin, Swarthmore, Wesleyan, etc:</p>
<p>It gradually dawns on you that you've stopped expecting the man-in-the-street everyday guy to have heard of it. That's because it gave you confidence in your own education to value the school for its many merits. Why would someone who didn't go someplace know much about it, except for what others say about it? So your opinion isn't shaped by others' perceptions, nor do you seek their approval to validate the decision you made at age l8.</p>
<p>It also teaches you a humane acceptance of what the man-in-the-street knows and has to offer that you do not.</p>
<p>You discover that when you NEED the prestige, for example to apply to graduate school or apply for a top-shelf job, the decision-makers in those places HAVE heard of it, or had friends who went there or to similar quality schools. </p>
<p>Your friends who go off more noisily to the Ivy League schools become more nuanced each year about realizing that the LAC's train top level academics. In their own course catalogues, they'll read the professors' credentials and see how many of them have their undergrad degrees from the LAC's. They'll read books written by grads from both Ivies and LAC's. After a while, they'll too get the idea that while their Ivy schools ARE fabulous, they are not the only show in town in terms of an undergraduate path. </p>
<p>THe real proof in the pudding is who gets into grad schools, at which point you'll compete with Ivy Leaguers and do as well on admissions, provided your academics grow and develop as they should and your MCAT, LSAT, GRE or whatever score is high also. Every now and then you'll read some grad school prof writing about how the LAC kids in his/her grad school classes were actually better prepared than from their own Ivy undergrad. Well that's a bit much but I've read it. My guess is you'll be prepared "as well" as the Ivy undergrads. </p>
<p>So the respect is in place where you really need it, namely grad school admissions and good jobs. Private university-educated people know all of this about LAC's. The fact that your pharmacist, driver ed teacher etc. never heard of it happens to remind you that there are other values in this country, too. You probably can't name a top school for learning to be a chef (hint: Culinary Institute of America in upstate NY) so for someone in that field, you don't really know much. No matter; you all find what you need.</p>
<p>So, yes it's annoying right now, and it doesn't change, but your gracious acceptance of this will develop.</p>