<p>"I understand the initial reviews geared towards my background, but I assure you there is more to me than what the people here are apparently seeing."</p>
<p>^ Understand that we aren't reading your recommendations. We haven't seen your essays, and we've never met you in an interview. We have nothing to go off of but the stats and attitude that you provide here. It has been said that your stats (by which I mean both scores AND ECs) are very good, but nothing that is going to make Cornell, Stanford, Pomona, or UCLA a definite acceptance for you. Bear in mind that a 4.8, 2200, and heapload of leadership wouldn't make all of those schools definite acceptances for you, either. It's not a weakness on your part...it's just an unfortunate fact of the system, and the schools can't be held individually accountable for not being able to make room for this year's influx of qualified applicants.</p>
<p>"Runells07, the more bitterness that you display and the more you blame others for your situation, the stronger the case you are making for why colleges rejected you."</p>
<p>^ It's true. You asked for opinions and you asked for advice...it's not being forced upon you. Sorry not to give you the info that you were looking for, but you've been given a lot of valid advice. If you don't agree with it, then state so, graciously, but there's no need to criticize those who are voluntarily answering you. Furthermore, a mother who has successfully guided two children through the application process is a valuable source, and likely has a great deal more direct knowledge than most of us, who are current students and applicants, ourselves. </p>
<p>"IMHO, you were accepted into two schools where you can receive an excellent education, and the rest of your list was made up of high reaches for which an applicant would need some sort of phenomenal hook to balance your strong but not top of the heap scores."</p>
<p>^ Also true. Both Oxy and UCSB will provide you with great opportunities (and for the record, I know one current Cornell student who was rejected as a senior in high school, but successfully transferred after a year at UCSB). You were a strong applicant, which perhaps not enough of us have been sufficiently clear and direct in stating, but your rejections, while unfortunate, are not unbelievable. </p>
<p>And in response to the poster who said that a 3.9/4.3 indicated a less-than-incredibly-rigorous courseload, I have to say that your assumption is unfounded. The highest GPA in the history of my [top] high school was a 4.414, and it's only been achieved once (2000, and the school doesn't rank, but this GPA was so exceptional that it was announced at the awards ceremony). The OP could come from a school that doesn't offer any honors/APs until junior or senior year. He could come from a religious school that has a large number of required non-weighted theology classes. He could have chosen to take lots and lots of electives, which would have "watered down" his GPA, but boosted the rigor of his courseload. One of the strongest students in my graduating class, currently at Princeton, had a surprisingly "low" GPA ("low" meaning that you would have expected a higher number from a student of this caliber) because she took four different foreign languages, none of which were weighted until at least the third year, and two of which were never weighted at all. So I do understand the assumption that you made, but just know for future posts that you need more information to go off of (which, granted, the OP did not provide). I'm not claiming that any of these describes the OP's situation...just noting that there's no standard scale for measuring one school's GPAs against those of another school.</p>
<p>And to the OP, I don't assume that you're male. I, and presumably most other posters, use "he" because it's a convenient and generally accepted default pronoun, and you haven't corrected us. </p>
<p>My little sister, who, in my pretty critical opinion, is as awesome as awesome gets, just received her 4th waitlist/rejection (she applied to 4 schools). No, your situation didn't work out the way you would have liked, but you could be worse off, as no small number of equally well-qualified students are. Best of luck at Oxy or UCSB. I hope that you come to appreciate them for the excellent opportunities that each will provide.</p>