Hey! Congrats on your work this far, especially as a first-generation college student. It’s not easy to navigate, and I have a lot of respect for you on here planning. I’m a current junior at Vassar and would love to help you out in any way that I could, feel free to dm me and ask more questions here! I’ve done some work helping first gen/ low income students with navigating the college process.
The comments about financial aid calculators are really important. If you apply ED, it’d binding, so you need to make sure it’s something your family could pay for. You probably already know this – but doing those calculators would be valuable.
I don’t know much about Pomona, though the points about how it’s really just part of the larger Claremont Colleges seems important if you didn’t like the “bigger school” vibes. Even if Vassar isn’t for you, maybe Pomona isn’t the best alternative? LA is also just a whole different vibe from the New York state and city.
I like Vassar a lot. It’s not perfect, but I have a lot of appreciation for it. Our STS program is pretty well regarded. Open curriculum is really, really nice. Vassar is a nice size. When I was in high school, I was worried that 2,500 students would feel too small. But honestly, there are always tons of new people to meet, though you’ll always see people you know when you go to stuff. It’s a nice balance. Of course, that’s subjective… but I like it. There are lots of connections between Vassar and NYC though. The Center for Career Education does a lot to help students connect with alums.
Vassar has a Transitions program for first-gen, low income students too. They have a foundations week, and are active with events throughout the school year. Many of my friends did this, and love the community of people and supper networks that it built for him. It’s one of the best parts of Vassar.
I’m from Maryland, and considered going to Cali for college. In retrospect, I’m glad I didn’t. It’s cheaper to get home, and it’s nice to feel closer to family, without being too close. 5 hours is plenty far. Support matters – even if you aren’t going back more than 3 times a year, knowing that you could matters. Of course, others feel differently
People get stressed at Vassar, of course, but I don’t think we have a culture of stress. Honestly less stressful than high school, I think. People work a lot, but have time to do things other than study haha. I was really surprised by how many people sleep enough and prioritize their well-being over getting every reading done. The social science/ humanities profs especially are really caring and supportive people.
Pomona is richer though, and that comes with perks! Though I’ve been able to get money for stuff from Vassar. Last summer, I got a grant from Vassar to live in Peru taking Spanish classes all summer. They paid for the whole summer – including the classes, my homestay, food, transit, and trips to Machu Picchu, the Amazon rainforest, a fútbol game, etc. I got money to go to a conference about Civic Engagement in Boston last fall. Some of my friends got money to go to a conference in Montreal over Spring Break (they ate very well too haha). My friends and I applied to the Vassar ticket fund and all saw Hamilton on broadway and ate at a nice restaurant, all totally covered by Vassar. I’ve seen another show on broadway, also totally covered by Vassar. My dorm had buses that went to see Cirque du Soleil this December, and we did this cool sailing thing on the Hudson with an environmental justice organization this Spring, all totally free. The Vassar Student Association (our student government) gets to allocate nearly a million dollars to student clubs and organizations each year… which equates to all sorts of cool stuff that students spend money on. Pomona is richer and I’m sure you could do stuff like this there… but don’t discount that Vassar is also quite rich. There are opportunities to access money here too.
Anything I else I could comment on to help? Feel free to post here or dm if there’s anything I could help support with!