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Then you need to know yourself. I started my college search in winter of my sophomore year. My list changed over time, of course, but I never stopped wanting an intimate LAC with small classes in a non-urban environment. I can’t imagine changing my mind about that. And, in the end, I chose a school that was “on my radar” from nearly the beginning.</p>
<p>Some people’s heartfelt, honest opinions may indeed change depending on what they see in front of them. Other people’s, I assure you (because my father and I belong to the decide-once-and-forever type), would not. Two people, with the same financial need; one is well-suited for ED, one is absolutely not. If you, as a matter of personality, can’t confidently make a decision early and stick to it without regrets, then you shouldn’t be applying in the early decision round. The whole point of ED is promising that you won’t change your mind.</p>
<p>In the example that mom2collegekids cites, the actual difference is +$10k (which is not “normal,” btw, but anyway you should have in mind a hard number that you aren’t willing to exceed). The extra $10k from a “misunderstanding” is entirely the parents’ fault for being misinformed.</p>
<p>My personal situation and decision matrix was similar to electronblue’s and garland’s, which is why I am such a strong advocate of not automatically dismissing ED if you have financial need. My FA package through ED (to a school that promises to meet full need without loans) was actually a bit lower than what we had estimated using a peer’s online calculator. I also had “enough need” to require close to full tuition in merit aid. The rolling/EA schools that would offer me enough merit aid–such as NMF scholarships, which I researched quite extensively–were not as attractive as my in-state financial safety.</p>
<p>I also reiterate the importance of curmudgeon’s outlined financial criteria. (I am from a one-income immigrant family, though not first-generation or low-income. Everything fell neatly into the calculators.) And, if there are more than two parents/guardians with any legal association to you, please be extremely wary. Assume that all non-custodial and step-parents WILL be expected to take on full financial responsibility.</p>
<p>anxiousmom - If outside scholarships reduce work and loans, there is a practical reduction in EFC because you can still take those loans and still work on campus–it’s just considered outside of your FA package.</p>