<p>change is difficult.
and necessary.
and equal rights are just that: equal.</p>
<p>Like everything in life, before things can find their natural balance the pendulum often, if not always, swings from one extreme to another. Total acceptance to zero tolerance. With time the balance is found, at least that is the hope. The pendulum has to swing back to neutral- it will; give it time.</p>
<p>I, for one, do not want to return to the days when bosses chased, and often caught, young female workers and forced unwanted attention, if not worse, on them. BTDT. No thank you. My daughter will know better. If it took legal action to get there, so be it. Like I said, change is difficult.</p>
<p>At the same time, I do not want to see unwarrented charges of rape and harrassement brought on the innocent. But I want to see them brought down on the guilty. Regardless of gender. False charges should be dealt with just as harshly. </p>
<p>When you try and educate the masses, and despite the education to enlighen they continue to hold onto outdated modes of thought and behavior, there comes a time when someone has to step up to the plate and say "no more." It's time. It's past time.</p>
<p>Tailgate happened....how long ago?
Females were integrated into the service...how long ago?
And into the academies...how many decades ago?
And still they struggle.
Some traditions die a hard death. And while I recognize and understand that, the one constant that remains is change.</p>
<p>The bottom line is that things are not going to go back to the "good ole days" .... not by a longshot. So don't you think it is time to drop the nonsense and get with the program?</p>
<p>I have a son at the academy. I am very, very proud of him. I also have a daughter that I am equally proud of- her route was a civilian college. Had she, however, demonstrated and interest in serving our country and attend an academy, I would like to believe that opportunity would be open to her. And that she would be respected, supported and encouraged for that choice, just as my son is. </p>
<p>So to Great American and the list of articles that come as "recommended reading" ...are they being offered to enlighten us to a balanced arguement on the topic, or are they geared towards promoting outdated ideas and traditions of those that would hold to the "good ole days" mentality?</p>
<p>You know- I was fortuntate enough to attend the Navy football game last weekend. I saw mids getting along. I did not see a great divide between male and female. I have hope. </p>
<p>I also saw 2 blue angels fly overhead. They looked great. Turns out one was piloted by 2 men, the other had a crew of 2 women. In the air it didn't matter, so why does it matter so much when they step off the plane? </p>
<p>If you really want to get back to the "issue"....</p>
<p>a teacher spoke out of line. male, female, who cares. It was inappropiate. It was crude. Do you want this teacher in the front of your kid's classroom? I don't.</p>