I am torn on this one.
On the one hand, I agree that students who have the advantage of college-educated parents already have an advantage in terms of getting into college.
On the other hand, I know that my son’s admission to my alma mater has made me a more active alumna. And thus I can see how legacy admissions make alumni more loyal and active… including ones who give much more money and time than I ever have or will.
I am not a big donor type, either in terms of my money or my time commitment. I write an occasional check for a charity in the amount of twenty dollars if a student or teacher or parent where I work is collecting. On my own, I also donate twenty dollars a year to each of the two organizations that support research into my son’s disease.
I never donated to my alma mater before my son was in 8th grade and I started reading College Confidential. I had not known that legacy admissions existed. I never thought of a college as a charity (though now I think about the fact that they help poor students), and I was just annoyed by solicitation calls. But once I knew legacy admissions existed, I promptly sent them a check for… twenty dollars. By his junior year, I gave $120 for the year. Pennies compared to richer or more generous donors, but still more than I would have given otherwise.
I never attended any alumni reunions or anything.
After my son was admitted, I became an Admissions Volunteer. I loved my college because it made my son happy. I now identify more as an alumna than I ever felt before.
I am currently actively working to arrange a visit from the college to my son’s high school (where he is the first student ever to attend my alma mater, at least since Naviance began). I signed up to help them reach out to potential applicants and newly admitted students in my geographic area. I said students interested in my career could reach out to me.
Suddenly, I am helping my college. Why? Because I identify more with the college as now it is special to two generations of my family, not only me but also my son.
I never will know if my son’s status as a legacy helped with his admissions or not. He is a strong student, and he was a typical applicant for his college. What tipped him in above similarly qualified applicants? Was it the wise move of applying early decision? Was it his essays, which were great? Was it his recommendations? Was it just the total strength of his application? Or was he helped by being a legacy?
I do not know. I do know he deserves to be there on his own merits, because he is an amazing student. I am confident he will thrive there. Students like him are admitted every year without legacy. But other students like him are rejected every year, too.
I also think it would be unfair if legacy status worked AGAINST applicants, if the college has to prove they are not admitting legacies following this movement. But yeah, students of educated parents already have an advantage that first generation students do not. At a minimum, they grew up with books and conversations, their parents knew to save money for college, they knew about visiting colleges and about how college admissions work.