“What I don’t get is why the members of all these good fraternities aren’t the ones who are most outraged by the bad behavior of the bad ones. They are obviously giving you a bad name, and have been doing so for decades. Why do you put up with it? Why do you let them stay in your “system?””
Can you clarify if you mean –
a) “why do the good XYZs at Michigan put up with the bad XYZs at Georgia” (schools picked arbitrarily, for illustrative purposes),
or whether you mean
b) “why do the good XYZs who are fine upstanding young men most everywhere they plant their flag, put up with the bad ABCs who cause havoc on whatever campus they wind up on.”
The answer depends greatly on which of these two scenarios you are referring to.