I did think about the Columbia and how it could be expensive if people went out to eat and on weekends. My daughter is very thrifty, even when she has money. She just does not like spending money on food. She has never drank coffee. A good example she was going to an academic event a few weeks ago and the instruction sheet said give your child $20 for food. My daughter ate two cups of ice and spent the money on books.
I do not know what peer pressure would be like? Right now where we live if she goes out with classmates, it is hard to find a place that is not owned by someone at her school or has kids from her school working at it so food is usually discounted or free.
There was only one time I can think of that she was in a sitiation where she was with some very wealthy kids and they were shopping. She decided to go to a dance in a group and the girls wanted to go to the most expensive store to buy dresses. She thinks back on that day as an experince but something she would not want to do again. She honestly would have rather gone to the consignment store which has a much larger selection of dresses then the expensive store she went to with limited options. She thinks back on it maybe in a way, like lessons that taught her what she does not like.
I think this is why Wellesleyâs location was ideal. The campus was beautiful in a safe suburb but maybe on a weekend that she had less work she could go to the city easily to go to a museum or play. I do not think living in the middle of the city is the dream as much as the city being close enough to go once in awhile. When people say Amherst is rural, it is not to us. My husband drives about 250 miles to take our kids to the movies , ice skating, roller skating and museums. My daughter would be happy with just new things to do without a day in the car.