<p>xindianx: First off, please refrain from using derragatory terms such as "gay" in your posts - they are inappropriate and not respected in this forum. I would expect more from a person who claims to be the "captain of his debate team." As a matter of fact, I don't recall any professional debater who doesn't use proper grammar, unlike yourself. That being said, let's move on to your argument(s).</p>
<p>Your basic, over-arching "theme, per se, is that we should give URMs the chance to succeed, considering their family situation, etc. And furthermore you say that "this is the real world, face it."</p>
<p>However, this isn't the case. It seems that you are mistake about how our world works. In the real world, people don't care whether you are white, asian, african, hispanic, or arabic - all they care is that you're qualified to complete your job. They won't give you preferrential treatment, or else it'd be "racial discrimination." </p>
<p>I agree with Elbereth, in that my own parents as well came to this country and had to work hard to earn their living; and they had no preferrential treatment in this country. They earned below 10K per year when they came to this year, and now earn over 100K. Clearly, America's a place where any person succeed if they're capable.</p>
<p>However, what you're proposing is that colleges should give better treatment to candidates who are NOT capable. I'm not saying that all URMs are not qualified - I know many URMs who are bright, and haven't relied on Affirmative Action to get into schools like Harvard, Princeton, and Stanford. The fact remains that there are URMs who have a 4.0 GPA, 1500+ SAT, and great extra-curriculars; and yet, none of them depended on Affirmative Action - they were accepted on merit, not on race.</p>
<p>Now, I'll offer a short anecdote just for the sake of making my point clearer. If I had to have surgery tomorrow on my knee for example, I would expect my doctor to know what he or she's doing. I don't care if the doctor's male, female, white, asian, indian, hispanic, black, or arabic - all I care is that he or she is qualified. However, what if my doctor had gotten into college because of Affirmative Action? What if he wasn't academically qualified to operate - perhaps he wasn't used to the rigor of the college he was a student at, because that school was actually a "major reach school" for him. </p>
<p>In addition, you still haven't responded clearly to the argument that this is reverse discrimination. Do you think it's fair for asians or whites who have to struggle day and night to do well in school, only to have their seat taken at a college by a student who was less qualified? What if you applied to X University, and a less qualified student got your spot because he was a URM - how would you feel?</p>
<p>I'm guessing you wouldn't be too happy if you were rejected by your dream school, to let a URM take your spot. You can talk the talk all you want, xindianx - but you've also got to walk the walk. Let's see if you're willing to give up YOUR own spot for a URM student - I mean, afterall, you so adamantly support Affirmative Action...</p>